right now i am going through some rough times one of the reasons is my mom i think is stupid because she is with a boyfriend who beats her but she says she loves him and wants to be with him....she got hit and he left a mark on her face she called the cops but he took off with his cousin or brother and he called her said hes sorry she forgave him and he was coming bak to see her and on his way back to see her he got pulled over and detained because he was here illegaly and my mom got a phone call saying that he got detained but she was confused because the name didn`t match who he said he was to my mom and my mom got mad but she`s wondering should she get him out and marry him to keep him here legaly and forgive him for hitting her and lying about his name after a 2 year relationship or should she leave him detained and let them send him back...so waht do you think?
2007-03-17 11:53:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hell No, leave before he kills you ,or you kill him in self- defense.
Last week I called police, I was driving down the street, when the car in front of me stopped, the man began punching & hitting, the women, she was bleeding so bad she could not see both eyes were blacken, when the police came, the women said he did not hit her, she cursed me out for calling for help, That is why he will beat her again, he knows she will take up for him even if her tooth is knocked out or 2 black eyes. Love is not suppose to hurt!!!
2007-03-17 12:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by 520 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer an elementary question. there is an particularly complicated set of things that make contributions to "battered woman syndrome". Many have themes with melancholy (for sure), low self-worth, & many have been abused as infants & don't think they deserve any further effectual, or they have watched a determine be abused & this replaced into in basic terms a "fact of existence". i might prefer to offer the lads that try this stuff a jiffy on my own with real men too...notably particular they does not emerge.
2016-10-02 07:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, dont you think God is showing you something when he sent the cops over to detain him. He knows that if that man stays with your mom, he is gonna continue beating her. .......You already know what she needs to do. In marriage, your stuck. If she marries him.. shes like giving herself a one way ticket to the grave. .... let her choose, ..it seems like common sense to me... but if you love your mom, you would talk some sense into her.. and tell her to jus forget about him.
2007-03-17 12:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by missattitude691 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell No! She should get away while she can. A man does not love you if he beats on you. If it happens one time it will surely happen again even if he apologizes, next time it could be tragic. Plus he lied about his name, Oh no, tell her to forget about him.
2007-03-18 07:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by CutieLNS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? Hitting your mom and lying about his name? This sounds like Jerry Springer! It sounds like your mother has a low self-esteem, ask her to seek help.
2007-03-17 12:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave that a**hole. She doesn't deserve a man like that and no woman deserves to get beaten and lied to about his own name. I mean that is just stupid.
2007-03-17 12:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by ♥~gracie girl~♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer.... try to convince her before she ends up dead.
Abusers never change. Unless it's for the worse.
2007-03-17 11:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him back. Why would she stay with him? If she chooses love or life, then she's destined for death.
2007-03-17 12:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um NOOOOO, no woman should be with something who hits them
2007-03-17 12:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by smash_mouth_man2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋