so what exactly does it mean when a girl you are barely starting to get to know , tells you that if you move not to move too far cause we are just starting to get to know each other, that she missed talking to me and that she hasnt forgotten bout me. eventhough she has a bf but her bf cheated on her not too long ago and she took him back but things have been goin downhill. anyhow i know for a fact that girls just dont say things like that to anyone especially girls with a bf. so what could it mean?she might like me?she might just miss her buddy , new buddy at that or whats the dilio??
2007-03-17 11:50:56 · 7 answers · asked by Cj 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are a few possibilities.
She could be trying to get back at the boyfriend who cheated on her and she took him back.
She may have developed a liking for you because you've been there for her.
Either way, you don't want to be the rebound man. You seem like you're a nice enough guy that you deserve all of someone and not someone who's going to be dreaming about their ex.
If you really like her, stay in touch and grow your friendship. However, give her a chance to officially break up with her bf and THEN a chance to heal and get over him. She's obviously nuts over him to have taken him back after he cheated on her.
Give it time and don't let their volatile relationship get you caught up too.
2007-03-17 11:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by mycountryfamily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt take a word of that seriously untill the boyfriend is out of the picture! Also not to be mean but i am a girl and girls will say just about anything (among guys) to get what they want! So you need to think to yourself why would a girl who has a bf whom cheated on her still be with him? My husband of four years cheated on me and i dumped him! That is just not tolerable to me! There is no excuse for cheating! So to that i say when and if she dumps her bf then look into otherwise i think she is just talking trash! All words no action!
Also i was wondering how do you know for a fact? Cause well everyone is different and everyones intentions are different know what i mean? You can never know someone for a fact like that! You may think you do but people can change and do something they normaly wouldnt!
Kell
2007-03-17 11:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. she might like you and yes. she might just miss her buddy. It is hard to say with women because we speak through our emotions. If she is attracted to you then why did she try to take her boyfriend back? Especially if he cheated on her? There are so many diseases out there right now that that is a huge risk in its own! Do you like her? The fact that you are just barely starting to get to know her she could just be telling you what she wants you to know. It is known as a "need-to-know basis" and women pull it all of the time especially when they dont know which man to choose from. There could be more issues pulling at her heart from her bf that you dont know about or you could just be a shoulder to cry on. Me and my husband always say that it is not possible to be friends with the opposite sex with out some kind of emotional and physical and even sexual attraction going on.
2007-03-17 12:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't have anyone to talk to her problems with, it sounds like you two are getting close if shes sharing her relationship problems with you. Just wait it out, she might just think she likes you because you've been there for her. NEVER LET A GIRL KEEP YOU ON THE BACK BURNER. If you mention dating someone else and she gets jealous, you'll know shes just keeping you around as plan B.
2007-03-17 12:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by Lacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be convenient for her when she needs to get away from her troubles with the bf. Or she may just really like you and is just worried she will lose her chance with you. Girls can be very indecisive and react prematurely when they feel confused.
2007-03-17 12:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She def likes u but beware cuz she still has a bf and u dont want to make her cheat on him.
Good Luck
2007-03-17 11:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's keeping you around for a spare.
2007-03-17 11:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by loving U 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋