well one of my bf's friends likes one of my friends but she doesnt like him. Then the guy that likes my friend said something that startred a rumor about my friend being gay(which she isn't). Now my friend is mad at my bf's friend and he(my bf) is mad at me cause my friend told his friend to **** off. Im afraid im going to have to take sides and I really dont want to cuz im screwed no matter what side i pick. What should I do???
2007-03-17 11:48:33 · 7 answers · asked by Beth S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just talk to both of your friends and let them know that you don't want to get in the middle of the mess because you still want to remain friends with both of them. If they are true friends they will both understand and they will both respect the decsion you have made.
2007-03-17 11:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel that happened 2 me once with my friends it was hard 4 me 2 pick a side but i picked a side i had to pick a side because one was right and the other was not ........ i think your bf shouldn't be mad at u it just stupid i say u pick your best friend because that was wrong for that dude 2 stat a rumor............ u know it wrong
2007-03-17 19:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by Puerto Rican Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't choose one particular side. Don't choose your friend's side, but don't choose your boyfriend's side either. Tell your bf that his friend actually spread a really nasty rumor, so it really isn't your friends fault that she had to say that to his friend. Then tell your bf's friend to stop spreading rumors.
2007-03-17 18:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend won't make you take sides (and that goes for boyfriend too). Don't take sides.
2007-03-17 18:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by Liza 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wanna ask him to sit dwn wif you and u wanna have chat and sort things out. don't let it come between you if he doesn't listen to u his he the one u should be wif. ur friend should be helpin u sort out this problem because she did start it.
gd luck anyways
2007-03-17 18:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by valleybbe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that she is Bi and then everyone is happy!
2007-03-17 18:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay neuteral
2007-03-17 18:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by coocoo4cocopuffs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋