the 8 bucks per month for unltd texts and calls to me..and he stopped texting me all the time. and when i texted him when he said he was going through a rough time to see how he was and i asked if he wanted me to give him some space he said yes please. he doesnt want me right? he wants me to stop bugging him right? be brutal. ( but hey not too brutal)
2007-03-17 11:41:04 · 11 answers · asked by darkling 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the writing is on the wall. the fact that he cannot sacrifice 8 $ per month on u means u r not worth it. he told u to ur face that he needs space . sister he needs more than space , he needs u gone.
2007-03-17 11:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all guys never really know how to communicate. Maybe he found someone he's giving all his time to or possible he just want a change of life. Perhaps it's best to let him be right now whether good or bad in his life, he feel distance from you is what needs to happen. Let it go for now and live your own life. He'll come around when he's ready and then you guys can talk about what went on.
2007-03-17 11:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ash D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear darkling
If a man tells you he can not afford some thing that is what he means please cut him slack he feels bad enough as it is. Please be a good friend. Do not offer him money for free. If you want to keep texting him. Pay him to help you
do some thing. Tell him you need this done and was told it would cost you so much which is more then what he needs to pay his bill. See if he well do it. If he still does not let you text him he still may like you but he has other bills he needs to pay more important.. Can you write him notes. this does not cost either of you any thing and you have to see him to give them to him. Put perfume on them. I love it when I can read a note with the smell of the girl on the note. Good luck guys for the most part do not talk as girls do. If we are not interested in you we do not ask you to be a friend.
2007-03-17 11:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's trying to get rid of you. But isn't man enough to say so or just doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Move on.
2007-03-17 11:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by Dear Lie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are annoying him. most guys usually can handle up to half of girl's 'want to talk' stuff. give him a silent sex treatment means you go for it with less words possible and you end it up with no talk do it once no more and he'll go crazy about you
2007-03-17 11:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by Di Snow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could simply be a cash flow problem. Ask him about it directly since he brought it up. If someone tells you they need space, then give it to them. Life is too short to waste it on someone who doesn't want to spend it with you. This comes from experience.
2007-03-17 11:47:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, yes. It sounds like pretty lame excuses to me, and that means he doesnt even have the morals to tell you the truth. And you dont want to be 'friends' with someone who isnt honst to you anyways, right?
2007-03-17 11:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by han83b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea get a clue.... He's an ass... You don't need someone how can't afford $8.00. get real.... you should have kicked his broke ass to the curb
2007-03-17 11:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by loving U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I need space"= I want to date other people.
If he can't afford 8 bucks, then My My My.
2007-03-17 11:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he dont want to talk to you, hes being nice about it, i dont care who u are if you are really friends he would stay in contact with u even if it meant writing you a letter by mail, sorry
2007-03-17 11:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by burner377 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋