First off, if you are close to this friend, back off. I have seen it a million times a member of the opposite sex breaking up friends who have been friends for years just to never talk again. Second, if he is a flirt, he is going to flirt when he is with you. Do you want that? You won't be able to stop it. He seems to me not to really care about her, and it appears that he is in it for a sexual reason. Respect yourself, and beware....
2007-03-17 11:33:07
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answered by EternalBlueMemory 4
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wow. well, try and explain to your friend how you feel about this boy. Ugh, I had basically the exact same problem with one of my best friends. I liked this guy named Tyler and he was one of her guy-friends, but she had never thought about him that way. Well, he had turned me down (very hate-fully) 4 different times and I still couldn't get over him. So, 8th grade year rolls around, and I still like him. Well, he asks her out. And of course, as soon as he does, she realizes how much she likes him. So they go out. Boy, I don't think I was ever more mad. Well, as soon as they start going out, me and Tyler kinda become friends. And we start flirting 24/7. Well, I thought that he liked me. He didn't. He's just a big flirt. And him and my best friend are still together. It's been like 9 months. But now I have a really wonderful boyfriend. You should just go on liking this boy, but don't get your hopes up about him. He'll either like you or not, you can't do anything to change that. And if he doesn't, eventually a guy will come along that'll make you forget all about him. And then you'll think "What did I ever see him?"
2007-03-17 18:35:54
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answered by Amanda 2
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First of all, I feel your pain because I'm going through the same thing. My best friend that's a boy is so hot, and he knows I like him, but I think he likes my best friend that's a girl, even though she hates him. You're jealous and confused, and I think you should set ba deal with your friend that whatever happens, she does not do anything with your man intamacingly[?]. If she's really your friend, she'll agree to it, and everything will be fine. I don't know your entire situation so I can't give anything better, but if it helps, tell me so I can help a little more, but if it doesn't, I am so sorry but at least I tried.
2007-03-17 18:35:16
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answered by colesprouselover 2
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A wise bartender once told me "Everyone wants what they THINK they can't have". Assess the situation. Do you really want to be with a collossal flirt? If the answer is yes. Then the solution is easy. Act like you don't care and he will want to be with you. I am sure of this. I totally understand the jealousy thing. You can't control your friend and ALL girls like attention I don't care what she says. Hang in there girl. My theory is there are others out there and I think you deserve better, but if he is the butter on your toast, act like you don't care. Good luck!!!
2007-03-17 18:35:15
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answered by andybugg2000 3
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I wouldn't even bother with this guy. If he flirts with a number of girls inclusing you and your friend then he isn't anyone worth liking. It is hard seeing a couple together when you like the guy but you get over it with time. I wouldn't feel jealous of them because it's like you said he's flirting with her, you and God knows who else. I'd just forget about him best I could and move on to someone else. Someone who wont flirt with both me and my friend.
2007-03-17 18:32:28
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answered by jessicarabbit21 3
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well he doesnt sound like a nice guy if him and ur freind got something gone yet he still flirts with U? slap him
2007-03-17 18:31:42
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answered by sickskillz883 5
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darn, thats just sucks... Well find another guy to like, because don't wait around for love... You'll find a guy that likes you and be happy with.. Don't wait around for this guy you like.. Move on
2007-03-17 18:31:34
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answered by Rain L 5
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tell him how you feel
2007-03-17 18:33:18
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answered by smash_mouth_man2003 3
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