5 stages for real? Can a person go thru all or 0? I'm numb most of the time & still can't believe it happened, do I need meds? Feeling guilt or thinking it strange 2 have fun & laugh which I do or doing normal things (& moving on but not getting over it)? At times feeling sickened by this & thinking how much more (death/suffering) of this do I have to go thru? The last passing was my mother just before Christmas. Before that my stillborn child. Not in the best marriage & had traumatic things happen in past. Got over my grandma years before this (took 7 yrs), will I completely get over this or always grieve? Does acceptance stage last forever or does it mean you are over it? Feel like almost don't care about anything right now (can change soon to other). Trying 2 take good care of self, but that's about it. Nothing seems very important 2 me in this numb state-still shock? Fluctuating mood. Feels like there's no one 2 talk 2 (or I would be there). How 2 handle angry bro with issues?
2007-03-17 11:04:41 · 4 answers · asked by deva s 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
My brother more than likely would not go to see a psychologist but rather see it as a sign of weakness.
2007-03-20 17:00:05 · update #1
Also I think my brother does not see anything being wrong with him.
2007-03-20 17:01:04 · update #2
Go into your bedroom or where ever a pillow is, put your head in it and scream. Keep screaming. Hit the pillow. Throw the pillow. Scream again. Break something. Just smash something up. Get it out. You have so much pain! Break your dishes or whatever it takes. Break through to the other side!
2007-03-17 11:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm I can say these issues are different..I get angry, then I can have a good day and realize i am smiling and think why am i smiling?? I dont think anyone can get over it..My son has been gone 5 months and it still feels like yesterday I got the call (he was murdered)...I can tell you that you and your brother need to go to a grief counselor and or clinic..It seems like your in a bigtime depression...between your losses then a loss of a baby as well to add to your grief (so sorry to hear for all your losses)...See your doctor or your local clinic...your brother too...
Stay well~Keep on going dont stop living everyday though...
2007-03-17 22:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by **Mishelly** 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you have to try and take care of yourself first there may be someone that can help you get through the bad times or you may have to get through it on your own. your body needs rest and you have to keep eating and sleeping well to keep your body strong if you feel physically sick and very stressed out or are not sleeping well you may need to find a doctor that can prescribe medication to make you feel better or maybe some type of councelling if you have issues you need to talk to someone about. i think you must grieve and get some of the pain out of your system, but it is good to laugh and try to maintain your own spirits because you have to go on living no matter how bad thing get.don't give up try to just do whatever comes naturally to you. you don't need to feel guilty about anything. i hope things will get better for you.
2007-03-18 00:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by 57rider 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Only and best thing i can tell you is put yourself in the place of Job in the bible, and READ that book you see Job had those kind of problems and worse, Romans 8:28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to [His] purpose. Also Phill. 4:13 I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.
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2007-03-17 18:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by wgr88 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋