need help?!?

Question

this is really weird, me and my ex broke up because he thought we were too different, even though we werent. all of a sudden he starts talking to me a lot. and hes like you should come over and we could makeout and do sexual stuff..[not sex though,i'm a virgin lol]. he said he doesnt just want me for sexual stuff & wants to get to know me more. we didn't go out that long when he was my bf. whenever he talks to me he always talks sexual and asks me whats the most sexual thing iv'e done..but hes also really nice and he acts like he cares about me cus when i'm sick or watever he always calls and texts me all day asking how i'm doing..but do you think he is just using me? does he just want sexual stuff..i still really like him but i dontknow

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Answer 1

He considers you a challenge; someone to conquer; a virgin to despoil. He thought by breaking up with you that you would come chasing after him, eager to give yourself to him. When that didn't happen, you became something he couldn't have, so now he is all the more anxious to have you. If you want to play this game with him, play and enjoy, but expect that he will no longer be interested after you consent to sex with him.