Okay I have a problem. I just met this one girl at her work place that I frequently visit. Today I went over there and ask for her number. When I did she said "not yet" cause today was only the second time I had ever seen her so I guess this was to be expected. I really like her though and I am so shy that it took so much effort just to ask for her number the first time. I asked when the next time that she worked and she said "tomorow" I told her that I may come, and talk to her again tomorow and she had an attitude like "dont try too hard to do that" or something of that effect. I am so shy and I dont wanna scare her away. So, what should I do? I need help extremely bad!
2007-03-17 11:02:10 · 11 answers · asked by Dogg G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not likely. Good luck.
2007-03-17 11:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by mark t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that your scaring her off. You should back off a little bit and not be asking for girls numbers who you have only ever seen twice. Let her get to know you properly before you start asking for her number and saying you're going in specifically to talk to her. Just give it time. The longer you take in getting to know her the more comfortable around you she will be. If she still doesn't want to give out her number after getting to know you better then you'll know she isn't interested.
2007-03-17 18:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by jessicarabbit21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's not into you. It's not "to be expected" if you ask for a girl's number and she tells you it's too soon. If she thought there was potential, she would have given you her number or encouraged you to come see her again. Move on.
2007-03-17 18:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-17 18:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just invite her for lunch, it's not a date, you may get to know her better and since it isn't a dinner, she will not take it as a date...? You get to know each other better and maybe then... you will be more self-confident and in the end everything will work out the way you want??
2007-03-17 18:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by kamqx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in her shoes it took mine three months to get me to go out with him, maybe she has something unfinnished in her life she needs to work on before seeing some we all have lives just give her time just don't ask for awhile and just get to know her.
2007-03-17 18:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by Malibu Kitkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have flowers delivered with a card that reads "maybe you would like to chat sometime here is my number" and leave it at that. If she doesn't call you then move on.
2007-03-17 18:07:22 · answer #7 · answered by sandibum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt it's love at first sight, cuz then she'd give you her number. You don't really know her much, so you can't determine if she's perfect for you or not.
2007-03-17 18:06:22 · answer #8 · answered by Swini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a rose to let her know how much you care for her and if she blow you off hen buy her a teddy bear, roses and a card thn she will fall head over heels for you
2007-03-17 18:07:12 · answer #9 · answered by Cherise Y 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love at first sight doesn't exist. It's what Buddhists call lust.
2007-03-17 18:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋