My boyfriends keeps making hints that he wants to have anal sex. I am completely repulsed by the idea. I tell him no gently but the issue always resurfaces. Why does he want to do this? What is so great about it? What should i do? Give in and just honor his wishes you know take one for the team?
2007-03-17 11:01:25 · 5 answers · asked by Ledienal 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
1) Porn is awesome.
2) Anal sex is a trend now, 5 to 10 years ago, the trend was 3-somes. Trends are fine but they come and go... no pun intended.
3) Sex is about having a good time. It's up to you, If he loves you he shouldn't pressure you. If you respect yourself and your BF, tell him how you feel.
4) You can also experiment with a smaller object and decide if you like the feeling or not.
5) If he's annoying you, you can accept under certain conditions... What you take in the rear, he has to take in the rear first AND If he orgasms, you try it next.
2007-03-18 12:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by stupid_dangerous_thoughts 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, no sex is ok unless you are married. Sorry, just had to say that first, but on to your questions. If you love him, and you know he loves you, and you both are willing to spend the rest of you lives together. Give it a try, nothing makes a man want something more, than not being able to get it. I tell my wife all the time, the more you tell me no, the more I want it. He will get it one way or another, not because he does not love you. It could be because he wants something to hunt, and another trophy on his mantle. My advice is this, give it a try, you might like it. Use lots of lub, let him work his fingers in your anus, and just go as slow as you can. It may be better if you are on top, so you can judge the depth he penetrates you. But give it a try, and make him feel like a King.
2007-03-20 06:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anal sex is not for you. I found this answer in your question. I think your boyfriend watches too much porn.
2007-03-18 00:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by Reploid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'd rather go into the correct hole, if you know what I mean. He probably watches too many pornos, that's all they do in those nowadays.
If you don't want to do it, don't do it.
2007-03-17 17:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well start looking for another guy sounds like he's ready to dump you for someone who is into his fetish.
2007-03-19 15:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋