i have been going out for three yrs with the same man and now lately he's hasnt been around with me lateley. i know he's NOT cheating he's a straight forward person he's 46 yrs old and some one was telling it could be mid age crisis "what is that"? and he's moody and the next day he's not. sometimes i feel like im walking on eggshells.? what do you think?
2007-03-17 10:31:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be mid life crisis,or maybe he's Stressed out from work.Give him a little bit of space.Or talk it out with him.Communication is the best A.
2007-03-17 10:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nancy, he's confused. That's probably it! I would love to psychoanalyze it further, but, we guys aren't that deep! I'm roughly the same age. I too get into blue moods, anger at others with little provocation, but I too can be as sweet as the most romantic. I don't take it out on those I love though, so maybe there is something there that needs to be addressed. However, when it comes to a mid-life crisis.... I did buy a couple jet skis, and I drive them like a mad man! Well, it's better than cheating isn't it? ;) You two are old enough and from your other questions you seem to have wisdom beyond your years, so I know you can get through this or at least figure it out. If not do as I do, vent! I've got so many good friends from this site, those who are as wise as you, to vent and to receive venting from. Do the same. IM people! Click on their avatar and ask pointed questions! Friends make life better. Good Luck Girl!
2007-03-17 18:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We men tend to hold allot of our problems in and not want to express them because we would feel vulnerable. Just try and find a way to pick his brain. Find out whats eating him. Let him know that you are uncomfortable with his behavior but you are always there as a listening ear
2007-03-17 17:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by citizenparticular 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
may not be middle age crisis...since u mentioned his name im guessint you're somewhat younger than him...if you're significantly younger than him he may be feeling a bit insecure...maybe you're attracting attention from guys younger than he....
2007-03-17 17:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by unpredictedmystery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a little space for a while
2007-03-17 17:34:46 · answer #5 · answered by qpistol 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋