what do you do when your parents won't stop fighting with each other?

Question

my parent used to would never fight but now that's alll they do i scares me but i don't know how to tell them that help me please

Answer 1

If your parents are having problems you need to understand that it's their problems.. and you didn't have anything to do with it.

But it might be easier it you picked one and just told that one how much it bothers you when they argue. You can tell them that you hope they work it out, whatever is wrong, but it's really upsetting you to hear them fighting.

Sometimes, when there is a disagreement going on and you try to talk to both at the same time, they are still so focused on the disagreement that they might not be focusing on you. So maybe just a one-on-one might work.

good luck

Answer 2

what you should do is makeup a diary/journal talking about how u hate it when they fight, like make it really sad, say stuff like I can't take it and I wish they understood me.
Then what you should do is leave it some where they can find it leave it open on a page you want them to see. Your mom/dad will see it and talk to you. I hope it works 'cause it did for me.
Good luck!!!!!

Answer 3

A couple i know, have a dog trained to a litter box.(like a cat). As the couple grew older, they started fights daily over little stupid things......once i was visiting them, and again out of the blue ,they started an argue............dog came in front of them and "pooped" on the floor..........they told me that this is not the first time dog does this (only when they argue)...........my reply was: this dog has more brain than the two of you.............
You may buy a dog like that.

Answer 4

You need to get up your courage and tell them how you feel. It may not help
but you have to let them know how much it scares you. They need to know
how it makes you feel even if they don't listen. You can't solve this problem
for them and please, honey, don't feel like you are the reason they are fighting.
It's between them and them alone and don't let them drag you into the middle
of it. When you talk to them you may wind up crying but that's O.K They need to get marriage counselling. Is there an adult that you trust you can talk to for advice? You need someone who will listen to you and your fears. Good luck.

Answer 5

well if they are hitting one another call the police if they are just arguing and it dosent bother you to speek these words then tell them that if they are just going to argue all the time they need to go there seperate ways because it is hurting you in the long run and if they see you are acting more like an adult then they are maybe it will wake them up , but talk to a adult that you can trust about this please

Answer 6

what you do when they start fighting is go in your room (with sister or brother if you have one) then read out loud a happy book or go to a safe place that is away from where they are fiting or go to your room and turn your cd player on so you cant here them fight it might be hard but you will get trew it

Answer 7

Try sitting down and talk to them about how you feel and how you want them to stop fighting just communicate with them with your feelings

Answer 8

They are setting such a bad example for you, apart from making your life miserable. They probably should go their separate ways. Hope you will learn from this and never subject your kids to that sort of thing.

Answer 9

just talk to them one by one and take it from their sides of the story and tell them how you feel about it and then maybe they will understand.
but on the other hand the next step in this situation is divorce so if i was you i would just them that they need to divorce.
it sounds harsh, but its pretty much true.

Answer 10

You should sit them down and talk to them and they should realize what their fighting is doing to you. If you don't they might not realize what's happening.