Okay, Im fourteen, and I've been talking to a guy a lot lately, and he just recently asked me out... and we aren't going out yet, but I do like him a lot... anyway, I have something similar to tourettes. When I was little, i would sort of hum at the end of sentences or when everything was quiet. The doctors tested for it, and they said I was normal, and that it was a nervous habit that I would grow out of... and I have grown out of it. But all my friends to this day believe I have tourettes. And now my "boyfriend" found out, and he says it doesn't bother him, but it has to, right? I mean, no fifteen year old boy would truly want to go out with a girl with tourettes... i mean, its not extreme enough for anyone to notice it. Its pretty much gone... and its extremely hard to talk to him about it. I dont like to talk to anyone about it, and I never have. Its the only thing i've kept completely to myself... i dont even know what my question is. Any advice at all would be great... thanks.
2007-03-17 10:25:41 · 5 answers · asked by xxEquestrianxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't take advice from your fellow 15 year olds. Immaturity causes people to exaggerate the issues in others for entertainment, etc. Your doctor may be correct. Everyone has something that they do that makes them comfy. My husband would knock his head on the wall as a child to go to sleep. He recently outgrew this! I rock whenever I sit for too long.....
2007-03-17 10:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by Flighty 1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm undecided how Tourette's suits into this. appears like your MD defined it completely. exciting that I quite have a sister 11 years youthful than myself who did exacting what you describe as a toddler, youthful new child. She did no longer even comprehend she replaced into doing it. we would factor it out & she'd say it replaced into her motor. In any journey, she is now forty 3, luckily married mom of three & a math instructor. She stopped buzzing. So my advice to you is to overlook approximately your persons & they're going to finally supply up whilst they see they get no reaction from you. relish your new bf. you have no longer have been given something to describe.
2016-10-02 07:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that it shouldn't bother him. That's not even a major issue. Stop worrying about it. Only a guy extremely shallow would let it bother them. Btw, your "friends" are not doctors, don't pay them any attention on this matter.
2007-03-17 10:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by YaShen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. I think you are fine. If it is not noticable then he shouldn't care. Also your friends are probably teasing you about it. You probably don't even have tourettes so tell them to bug off!
2007-03-17 10:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by Expurt Spellr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all dependent on this....was it you that told him about your "problem?" (problem in quotes bcuz it may all be in your head)...or did he just ask one day...cuz from what you've described ...it doesnt sound like someone would just walk up to u and ask if uve got tourettes...if you told him...evaluate how u told him...did u blow it out of proportion or did u just mention it as a habit...? i think i answered ur question...im a bit lost myself...good luck...
2007-03-17 10:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by unpredictedmystery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋