ok so weve dating bout 7 months now, and we havnt talked on the phone or seen in each other in the past 2 weeks. all of a sudden, he stopped calling/texting. and so i called him a few times and texted him and he didnt answer. till finally i wrote a long text asking why hes ignoring me and all saying that this was unfair how hes treating me...and he texted back saying sorry im busy iv had a lot on my mind. blabla.....and we still didnt talk. i text him/call every couple days. but he wont answer. this is really odd because we talked EVERY day for 7 months, and all of a sudden hes avoiding me. well the past month-ish he has seemed "distant" and wouldnt call back when he said he would....so i dont know if i should write a letter or leave a final voicemail or go to his door.....im 18 hes 25.
2007-03-17 10:16:12 · 10 answers · asked by sd_baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry to hear that. He may have found someone his own age. He's just not man enough to be up front with you and tell you what's on his mind. It's a very pathetic thing to do not to tell you what's going on.
You deserve much better than him. Take the hint. Learn from this.
God has a plan for you and will bring you the right one in His time. Just have faith in Him.
2007-03-17 10:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The writing is on the wall, come on now, why are you even wasting your time and energy on someone who is obviously disinterested. In my opinion he is a loser, because a man, not a mouse, would have had the balls to say, it's over to your face instead of avoiding you or yor messages. He does not want to be with you, and instead of gruvelling and looking pathetic, I suggest you stop sending any test messages, don't show up at his door and wait to see when and what his next move will be if any. He is a loser, bottom line
2007-03-17 17:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by spoiltrini 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Just text him one more time and tell him goodbye, it's time to move it on honey, if he isn't doing it with someone else, then, you should be, he isn't for you, find another man, that will show interest in only you. He may not know the meaning of being fair, but you sure know what it means about him being unfair. Don't wanna break you heart, as your 'boyfriend' seems to be doing that all by himself. Drop him sweetie, you sound too good for the likes of him anyway, xXx..........Tony M............
2007-03-17 17:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by tony m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
goddd...I don't know why my fellow brothas go out with girls SO much younger than them. To me it's pretty gross.
Maybe he realized that you're way too young. He's getting his life together now with a career and everything. You've just graduated from high school.
2007-03-17 17:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by the_omz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that has got to suck...maybe he is cheating on you? I dont know if he's just ignoring you for this long then maybe you should leave him. He might be doing this so that you will leave him and he wont have to dump you himself. im not sure but i hope you figure it out!!
2007-03-17 17:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to bust your bubble, but he has moved on without you. He may contact you on and off to keep a string tied to you, but he has definitely found a new interest somewhere else. Don't pursue him if you want to keep your dignity intact.
2007-03-17 17:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just not talk to him ever again. It looks he met someone else or he just wasnt taking you that seriously with you.It sucks to know that this happened to you, but its better that this happened now then later.
2007-03-17 17:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hun..but it sounds like he may have lost interest. Or maybe he's cheating. I don't know..but if it continues just drop him. You deserve better. Good luck!
2007-03-17 17:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by Lucie<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with Him. He's being a jerk and you deserve someone better. Also he is acting way immature
2007-03-17 17:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by happygolucky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..you might think you love him....but Im sorry....the truth is...he probably is getting bored or tired of you..or he found himself another gurl his own age...
Hope this helps...=]
2007-03-17 17:21:53 · answer #10 · answered by BrigetteMuhRee<33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋