What should I do?Any suggestions,please?

Question

So here's the deal.There's this guy at my college.We've been palls for years but we always wanted to be more.We never said to each other,cause at the time we were both involved in other relationships.Because I wanted to be with him,I broke up with guy I was with,but he didn't brake up the person he was with,saying that he's not sure of anything.Recently,he did brake up with her and now he keeps telling me how bad he wants to be with me bla bla bla..I don't know what to do....I waited for him so long...It was really frustrating to see him a whole year staring at me ,even though he had a girlfriend.Now,that he has finally came to me,I don't know what to do.I gave up a lot of things for him,but he was not willing to the same.Is he worth it?

Answer 1

Play hard to get...But not too hard...just enough to keep him wondering what he could have had...and maybe...if he was willing to work, like you did....then maybe he still could. Don't be easy. You could get hurt. He could drop you for another opportunity, and think all along that he has you on his back burner. Go on an date with let the sparks Fly! then, go out with someone else - because you can and you and he are not exclusive. Be a tease. Guy want what they think they can't have. if he wants you he will work for you and really let you know. it will be just one of those things you will really see. never go to him! be cool! after all you are "just friends".

Answer 2

There are 2 ways to look at this....1.) He has genuine care for another person, Put urself in the other girls shoes, They were togethr awhile it is not ever easy. And the guy you were with was that easy.

Answer 3

you got to check the maturity level here. for both of yall. if you just drop a dude cuz somebody else thinks your hot then whats that say about you. dont get me wrong, i think you should date him. but love yourself before you think anybody else will. dig?

Answer 4

if i were you id take my chance before he changes his mind