my girlfriend and I have been going out for ages. Recently she seems to want more than snogging. She sometimes tries to push my hand up her shirt. I am 17 what should I do?
2007-03-17 10:11:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's up to you, don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with but don't let her think it's because you don't find her attractive xxx
2007-03-17 10:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by aria 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do what comes naturally and the rest is easy i am assuming you have never been in this sort of situation before so here is what to do.
make sure its what you want and that you are ready both of you.
the next thing is to check that you have a condom protection is the most important bit.
then go with what ever you both fell able to do and dont worry if you dont last long as it is your first time you wont be the only man to finish before you fill you should once you have done it a few times you'll get the hang of it good luck hun
2007-03-21 16:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if you dont feel comfortable about it dont worry. Everyone gets nervous when they're doing things they havent done before. Either talk to her about it or go seek some information on what to do and when you've got the information (maybe from your mates) then you'll be a bit more relaxed.
2007-03-17 18:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by Nay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a lot older than 17 and 1 thing I've learned in life is never do something that you're not happy with. follow your heart if it doesn't feel right, it isn't
2007-03-17 17:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by susan h 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well by the sounds of it you are a virgin.
If you are not ready then tell her
although it is strange that it is the male that is not ready.
Or are you just scared and unsure what to do really.
Go with the flow.
2007-03-17 17:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by magic 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are an honest person and my pleasure that you are speaking about this problem, It is your decisions, and you need to feel that moment, when both of you are ready... if no, than leave for later...
2007-03-17 17:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by Kate21 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if that makes you feel uncomfortable, then u need to tell her. if your not ready to go any further then she needs to respect that. if you are into goin further then u should jus reciprocate. dont let her make all the moves. she might jus wanna know where u stand on goin further.
2007-03-17 17:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by meshelle2kz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go with your heart but if you feel its to soon then tell her shes moving to fast and you don't want to rush things and if you have been going out for a long time then it is probably time for the next stage of your relationship.
2007-03-17 17:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by pinky85 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
this is juts me, but it kind of sounds like your not ready. so tell her. if she doesnt respect you and your timing or w/e you call it then she's not good 4 u
2007-03-17 17:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she's moving your hand there, she wants it, but if you're not ready make her aware of that.
2007-03-17 17:13:45 · answer #10 · answered by Kim H 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go with what you heart tells you but maybe try talkin to her first
2007-03-17 17:48:32 · answer #11 · answered by Busybee yep! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋