How do I deal with my ex girlfriends parents?

Question

My ex ended our relationship 6 wks ago. Only a day or two before she raised us splitting she was talking about stuff we would be doing together in the future e.g. holiday in the summer, friends wedding etc

She raised us breaking up. We didn't break up immediately. I said I was confused about what was going on. She said she had been down & went to the Dr who said she had depression (she had it very bad when a teenager). She then said our relationship was what was on her mind and she wasn't depressed. She ended things without really explaining why just that "things had changed over a short period".

We are back in touch now, she contacted me. She is giving mixed signals. We chat on the phone/text & met a week ago.

She is now away visiting her parents for a week. I have said I will ring her to chat at some point. I had a good relationship with her parents & know that when I ring her mother will try and speak to me about what happened

How do I react?? I want her back!

Answer 1

I know you want her back.., but do you know how long it is you ve got before she leaves you again? Are you prepared to live the rest of your life with someone who walks in and out of your life, as and when they please? I ve been through times like this and I have learnt to move on, and it always worked. Follow your heart mate and I wish you good luck but my advice is just let her go. It will be hard right now but will bring you lasting happiness.

Answer 2

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Here's the hard part: Pretend she never existed, like it was all a dream, don't call her, that will make you the smaller person, be the bigger person since you deserve better, what she did to you on Valentines Day was immature, especially after dating for four years. This person wasted allot of your time and through it out the window. Go out tonight, even it it is only yourself, don't drink and call or feel sorry for yourself, this will only cause you embarrassment! I know your hurting..This will eventually will go away in time. Today is not a good day for you and your emotions are spinning all over the place.

Please, whatever you do, don't answer her calls and don't call her. If she keeps calling, which she pro bally won't, don't return her call for 5 days. Make her sweat and DO Not get back together right away if you discuss this in 5 days. Tell her since she Broke up with you, you have done allot of thinking, and had the taste of "being single again" and you would like more time being "friends" for now, so you are sure you are making the right decision. Remember "She decided she didn't want to be with you" so the door is open for you to get out and see what you have been missing for four years. You honestly need to do this for yourself.

She doesn't know, but what she did was give you the best valentines day present you will ever get! A new start and a new beginning, use it to your advantage. You will look back on this and Thank God this happened now instead of 4 more wasted years of YOUR life. Today does suck, stay Strong and I promise you your life is going to be so much more exciting and you are going to be happy. If you continue to call and call her, she will think of you as needy and won't want you. She is going to rethink what she did to you today and will be hurt, if you act like you could care less. Girls always want the ones they can't have. That is who you are now to her. Let her suffer,realizing what a mistake she made. This will drive her crazy. Right now she is on cloud 9 thinking you will take her back, OH, is she stupid!

Your life isn't ruined, hers is..She lost someone special, and gave you a gift to let to live life and find someone you deserve. You are not getting back at her, your teaching her what an idiot she is and what she lost and what you gained without her. SO when You eventually talk to her, tell her thank you for what she did...
She will be hurt and you will be happy!

Answer 3

Try and be friendly to the mother, but never forget that what happens in your relationship must remain private (for the most part) between you and your ex, she must be able to feel that she can trust you and if you explain it pleasantly then the parents trust of you will be enhanced too. You can even say you're not sure of what went wrong but you'd like a chance at trying to sort things out, as long as you sound upbeat and not trying to pry it will probably sound best. I'm sure you are aware she may just need a friend for now, but I really wish you luck sorting it out

Answer 4

Your ex doesn't know what she wants. If I were you, I would leave her alone and not have any contact while she is away. It will give her a panic and make her see she has to do the decent thing and either break up completely or get back together. Otherwise, if she enjoys being without you and not having any contact then she knows what she wants! You need to assess yourself why you are letting someone treat you so badly...you are worth more than this.

Answer 5

I know this answer if off track, but don't call her. She left you, so let her call you if she needs you. Besides if there are other reasons, which I don't know of, and are compelling you to call her, just be honest. Tell her mother that you were at the receiving end of it and are trying to help your ex as much as possible (in whatever she decides). If she says other stuff out of concern, you don't necessarily have to give a reaction, just tell her that time will be a better judge of your relationship....hope this helps.

Answer 6

I think you should be honest and you should act like you always did. Don't start faking something or acting like a different person.
Think that is the best thing you can do and then wait and see if it worked or what she thinks about your relationship and try to talk to her and ask her to explain why she broke up so you two can work on these lil problems!!
*good luck*

Answer 7

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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

Answer 8

tell her you want her back.
when her mother speaks to you, tell her mother you regret how things ended with her and you want her daughter to be happy. say you are unsure about why she ended the relationship, but tell her mother you love her daughter very much and just want her to be happy.
her mum will do all the work for you then. and you'll be on her good books.
good luck =] x
i hope it works out.

Answer 9

Good luck with that ... maybe you should try moving on


That is garunteed to get her interested again


dr bad

Answer 10

I would try to ignore them as much as i can, but if you want to take a more mature approach then you can hii,