How do I ask a girl school mate out?

Question

I'm a senior in my high school, and i have a crush on this girl in my batch. She really pretty so most of the guys in our batch dig her. She's also very nice to everyone. She's like the nicest person ever. My problem is, i really have a very low self esteem, and i admit that im not really a talker, thats why we dont really talk much. I have to admit that she never really notices me, and no one knows that i like her. I think she just broke up with her BF recently (not sure) and i dont know what to do. If you watch teen movies im like one of the loser guys who doesnt have a GF. I don't know how to make myself stand out from the other guys because im not physically handsome and like i said i dont talk much (i just moved from another country-language problems, i guess). How can i ask her out despite these challenges? I really like this girl, so please help me by giving me a good advice. Please dont treat this as a joke. Im serious about this. Thanks in advance.
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Answer 1

Although getting to know someone — whether you're crushing on her or not — might seem really difficult, it's a lot easier than you think.

Here are a few pointers to get you started:

Think about some things you have in common with the person you're interested in. Do you know if she likes a certain kind of music you like? Do you have any mutual friends? Once you've identified something you think you have in common or want to talk about, try to find a time when you can be alone or have some privacy. You may even want to give her a call or send her an e-mail or IM.

You might want to consider asking her to do something with you and your other friends that could be fun or interesting, like going to a movie, the park, or a concert. This way you have some time to get to know each other without being alone with each other — which might make it a more comfortable way to start.

Answer 2

Well, make sure you introduce yourself so she knows you. Be kind and sweet and funny. After she has developed a comfortable friendship with you, ask her to the movies and get to know her more. If she says no, you have to be ready for rejection. Just ensure that you'll still be her friend and that you're willing to be here for her no matter what. Good Luck!
A.L.