Hi, I am in currently in college now and in my math class, there is this really pretty girl who sits in front of me. One day i had the courage to introduce myself to her and we had a brief conversation. After that day, every time i see her or walk in to class, i just smile and say hi and she does the same. I want to be able to talk to her more frequently and get to know her but i don't know why i can't do it. Maybe i'm just afraid of rejection or afraid to have a relationship again because of my past. What should I do?
2007-03-17 10:06:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Grow some balls
2007-03-25 09:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't allow your past to dictate your future, the past is the past and all you should be doing is living in the present. Don't assume the worst because that is exactly what you will get. Instead of thinking, just act. Worst case scenario is that she won't be interested and so what, is she the only woman on the planet that you'll be attracted to, I think not. Just go for it, initiate conversation, offer to carry her books, slip a a note whatever it takes to have her know that you are interested. Assert your self and be confident, after all you are a man and women are attracted to a man that is strong and self assured, knows what he wants and goes after it. Don't be shy and don't allow fear to keep you from maybe experiencing some joy with someone special. Good luck
2007-03-17 17:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by spoiltrini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you recently have a test? Ask her how she did. Was there an asignment that was recently handed in? Ask her what her thoughts were on it. Better yet be a lil slick. Say this:
Hey_____ do we have any assignments due today? (If she says yes then say) Really? Wow I must of forgotten it 2 write it down. Do you mind giving it to me?
Another scenerio:
Say the prof. explains a new topic. Ask her
Hey___ What do you thing of that algebra prob. the prof. had us doing 2day? She'll says hopefully" oh thats sooo easy" You'll say I don't understand **** do you mind explaing it to me? We can go to starbucks for coffe or just go 2 the school library.
Just stay calm. Try 2 find things 2 talk about..anything even if its on the weather. Compliment her. Women love compliments. Say she's got a pretty handwritting or she's got lovely eyes (thats my fav.!)
Good luck!
2007-03-17 17:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be afraid, shes probably feeling the same way, just do some small talk compliment her for example her hair and maybe say something about yours to get a conversation started,something like that, ask her some things like what she enjoys doing, its better to say something than nothing to her at all.well at least you say hi^ ^
2007-03-17 17:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by SQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from experience, i think you should ask her for things like a pencil or a piece of paper even if you dont need it. and if that does not work, then just be straight up with her and say you are beautiful and i would like to take you out sometime. do not tell her that she is hott or onything like that she might be too embarrassed and then she would probably never talk to you again. i would take advice from a girl. we know what we want!!!
2007-03-25 15:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by Nemo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i got 2 plans for you. 1) be bold enough to catch her after class( be sure its after class) and ask her if she would like to go have coffee or a snack or lunch with you. or just tell her why you are interested and see if you can get to know her better. they key to your question is dialogue. let her talk and you listen
2007-03-17 17:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by rjones122075 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she wants 2 get a drink after collage!
2007-03-17 17:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by amz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she wants to do some maths studying together.
2007-03-17 17:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by xanderbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you want to do? do that. peace
2007-03-17 17:11:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋