im going to call my ex tonight and...?

Question

im going to tell him how i feel, what should i say. i know thats confusing, but im really shy. i love him.

Answer 1

start off with a normal conversation. ask him how hes doing & after that, tell him how you feel about your relationship & how it ended. don`t by shy; be straighforward. you never know , me may feel the same way and was just to shy to tell you. good luckk !!

Answer 2

Your hands are sweaty, your heart is thumping and you're breathing fast... the tell-tale signs you're about to phone your crush!

Pretty much every girl has experienced crush-related phone panic. Before you dial his digits, read these handy tips for making the convo go smoothly.

*Carve Out Space
Make sure you're sitting in a quiet room where family members won't be tramping through. Your bedroom is ideal. Wherever you set up, also make sure it's somewhere you can relax and be comfy if the phone call is long. If you share a phone line with your family, you might want to let them know you'll be on the line and not to interrupt you.

*Get Prepped
You should be feeling cool and together, before you punch in his digits. Take a deep breath and let it out to the count of ten. Repeat until you're feeling chill.

Next, plan what you're going to say. Don't script it out completely - reading from a page can sound forced and fake - but if you're jittery, do make a few point form notes to help jog your brain if you blank out during the conversation. It's a good idea to know the first thing you're going to say, once he gets on the phone, so things get off to a good start.

*Be Nice to Parents
When you call him, be polite if a parent answers. Not that your crush won't be sitting by the phone waiting for your call, but in case that's not the situation, always be nice to any parents who pick up. A little "please" (as in, "May I please speak to . . .") can go a long way.

*Control Your Voice
How do you convince your crush you're fabulous over the phone? Your voice has a lot to do with it. Focus on speaking s-l-o-w-l-y. If you're nervous, you will naturally talk faster, so remind yourself to slow it down. Use pauses to put on the brakes if you catch yourself racing, or rambling. Speak clearly and don't whisper or yell. Of course, you have to be you - and if that's someone who talks a mile a minute, go ahead and do that! Just keep in mind that you'll be most impressive if he senses you are confident.

**Ask Him Questions
Yep, it's one of my favorite trick - asking open-ended questions. You want the things you say to lead to further conversation, so ask him questions that won't just prompt one-word, "yes" or "no," answers. For example, if you he tells you he's helping his dad fix the family car this weekend, you could ask him, "How did you learn to do that?" Or, "What other fixit stuff do you know how to do?"

*Seasonal stuff - holidays, events, school breaks - are great topics to ask questions about. Whatever time of year it is, there's probably a holiday nearby. For instance, in October, you might ask him what he's doing for Halloween. February is a perfect excuse to find out what he thinks about Valentine's Day. And so on!

*Hush Up and Listen
Remember, the phone goes two-ways. When the convo is cooking along, make sure you pause sometimes to let your crush talk. When you ask a question, don't rush to ask another one until you're sure he's finished answering. If you're lucky, he'll talk a lot and you'll find out all about him... and have less pressure to keep things going.

*The Uninvited Pick-Up
What if someone picks up the phone during your call... such as your dad? Don't freak your crush by yelling, "Dad, get OFF the phone!" Don't panic and slam down the receiver either - or your crush will have to yak with your dad, and that's not a happy place for him. Just explain to your dad that you're on the phone, and will let him know when you are done, which will be soon. Then wrap things up pretty quickly with your crush.

*Saying Bye
When you feel the conversation wrapping up, tell your crush, "It was nice talking to you" and say goodbye. End the call before you run out of things to say. One of you can always call again tomorrow!

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*Much Love* **God Bless**

Answer 3

if its on your mind girl, do it. I will be honest that you might feel stupid afterwards, should you not get the response you are expecting. Just clarify that to yourself that it doesn't not matter what his response is, you are doing yourself a favor by telling him how you feel and not to him by giving him importance. Just do that and you will be golden...besides, he is just a guy....no big deal:)

Answer 4

tell him exactly what comes to mind! If you don't you'll regret it!

Answer 5

1st say hello..then go from there