The funny part is that we already hooked up but she still acts like she dont wanna boyfriend but she will be texting me alot. She basically confuses me. When I ask her if she wants to chill or hang out she says maybe. And when I talk to her I feel stupid, probably because I like her alot....
2007-03-17 10:03:05 · 12 answers · asked by Andrew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mayb she just can't hang out with you for some reason but feels guilty for saying she can't and instead says maybe. she probably really likes you and wants you as her boyfriend but she just...can't.
2007-03-17 10:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is only looking for sexual gratification and not a relationship, some girls are like that. Or maybe she doesn't see you as someone she'd want to date? I have no idea, but if you do want a relationship with her then you should either ask her about it or just let things cool off between the two of you and avoid some of her calls/texts and what not.
I wish you luck!
2007-03-24 14:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by Rissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other respondent. She s new to dating and doesnt know what moves makes sense. So shes playing it by ear and also with the input of her friends. When women are trying stuff thats new to them, you gotta roll with it until you ve reached your limit and then let her know how you feel.
But for now, just let her feel her way around in the dark and get accustomed to being your girl.
She probably feels she doesnt want a relationship but wont tell you because if she did you d look for someone who did. She likes you but she needs to go at her own pace. So twiddle your thumbs til you re fed up. Then when you do blow, do it charismatically, NOT DRAMATICALLY and she ll melt.
2007-03-18 15:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by juanpeligroso1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in a very similar situation myself, maybe she is really likes you but is not wanting for the trials and tribulations of a relationship, or maybe just sexually frustrated. The road i have taken in my case is to convince her that maybe a propper relationship is not right and we are to have the most casual of relationships just hooking up at parties etc. effectively being f**k buddies. Good luck 2 u though m8 ihope it all turns out well for you
2007-03-25 10:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by 000000000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes u but she isnt ready 4 an actual relationship yet. Just giver her some time.
2007-03-25 06:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say i love to hang out with the pretty girl once in my life time
2007-03-25 08:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by kels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should stop txtin her or talkin to her for atleast a week or so and see how she reacts? if she misses u she'll ask u why u havent been in touch... however if she feels nothin for u she wont bother whether or not u been in touch........ dont let her feel like she controls u... if she likes/loves u and u dont stay in touch she'll try to find out why... if not................ well then u know the rest !
2007-03-24 22:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by I V X 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if she dosen't want a bf right now its cool.what ever you do don't push her into a relationship with you. just let it happen. and if she just wants to be friends then go with that after all we never know what will happen. so chill out and be cool. good luck
2007-03-25 08:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on just stay friends with, tell her that you'll wait for to be ready if you really like her that is.
2007-03-25 09:07:23 · answer #9 · answered by marshimaro1993 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's just new to dating, I guess. when I get boyfriends, I'm very shy around them and quiet. maybe she just isn't comfortable around you yet. I wouldn't say that she doesn't like you, but she definitely is probably shy. don't take it to heart, and go slow with her. â¥
2007-03-17 10:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋