see there is this guy i've liked for 2 years, he says he loves me and stuff, but he won't ask me out cuz i'm in middle school and he's in high school, so we never see each other. but anyways he says he loves me, but i hear from other people about his weekends and all the girls he hangs out with and other stuff. what should i do?????????
2007-03-17 09:58:18 · 24 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, he does not love you because you can't possibly really love someone you're not even with. You should just forget him, he doesn't seem to know what love is.
2007-03-17 10:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope this doesn't sound mean, it's not meant to be.
Ok, your in middle school, your still young, there will be a million more guys who you like and if this guy hanging out with other girls all the time or whatever, he probably doesn't really "love" you. High school boys don't know what love is anyway. Also,and I really don't mean this is as anything against you at all, but he's older than you by enough that it just probably wouldn't last over time. He'll want to be with girls his own age, and you'll find boys of your own age anyway. Especially if you don't see him a lot, things will be harder.
Really though, don't worry about it! There will always be other (better) fish in the sea...and ones who don't hang out with random other girls every weekend.
2007-03-17 17:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by Judy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur in MIDDLE school
this happened to one of my freinds and she's always telling everyone that it was a big mistake.
How does he love you? if you guys have never dated...
and if he's in highschool then he must not really know u cuz he prolly doesn't get to see you
this guy is a player...if people are telling you that he hangs out with some 304's and some "unmoderatee" people then maybe u should listen...
do u want to be one of those girls cuz i'd hope taht won't happen to you! u seem like a smart girl...maybe i'm wrong but i'm just speaking from experience. You should tell that boy that if he wants ur love then he should earn it...WITH PaTIENCE lol if he really loves u...he would have dated you by now
i really hope it works out for youu
:)
2007-03-17 17:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by other21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, babe. No.
He doesn't love you, that's impossible.
I don't mean to bring you down, but in my earlier years I've gone through some crap like this. He's only telling you he loves you to keep you on the hook.
By keeping you there, he knows he's got the upper hand.
& face it, most guys like the upper hand.
What you should do, is not play the fool anymore and tell him to F--- off. It's not worth your time, & you're still young.
You don't know what love is, most people don't.
Just date around, with people your age. Life shouldn't be so serious at such a young age, and as for him;
He won't ask you out because he doesn't want you. If he did want you, he'd be with you. That's the bottom line.
So forget about the jerk,love.
& good luck!
2007-03-17 17:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by ツ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang in there the same thing happened to me but instead of dating the guy i wanted i got something better just be careful he might just take advantage of you but because your in middle school he can get arrested for statutory rape so even if you two don't have sex he can still get arrested for dating you. 1) just keep it on the low but show him that he is missing out and no high school girl can give him what you got you are a person not a book or a tissue just to be called on when needed. your there for him 4 life
2007-03-17 17:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by blueredshott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not true at all. I'm a high schooler myself and I am dating a middle schooler. I would mess around and hang out with other girls on weekends because i didn't think she was very interested. Then i went to a movie with her and she "put out" and we've been together ever since. If you want him to hang with you, let him sample the merchandise. In other words, DO IT BIETCH
2007-03-17 17:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, i have been there and done that except the guy was my neighbor so i actually witnessed a lot of the truths behind things.
this guy is just telling you that to lead you on and know that if he wants you he can have you whenever he wants. you are letting him think that he can control you and your feelings. if he is in high school he is probably sleeping around with other girls and waiting until you are older. hes trying to keep you on a leash. i think that the best thing for you to do is find a boy your age who will like you the you like him. you have so much time to experience other boyfriends and things. dont waste your time on him.
2007-03-17 17:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by larissaxxlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a doubt about this boy or anything he does or who he is with...you should just stay away from him...If he is in high school and you are in middle school....as you said you won't really see each other..which is also another important part of a relationship...
Hope this helps you..=]
2007-03-17 17:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by BrigetteMuhRee<33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we i know i am a guy but i can help u i think he jus likes to get around for all u know he could be telling the other girls he hangs out with the same thing so i would hang back for awhile and ask around about him to find out if he is an honest guy and sticks to a relationship but all in all the decision is your
2007-03-17 17:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by Tblacklegacy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend,to be on the safe side,I'll leave him alone.He don't love you,he's just playing you for a fool,cause your young,innocent,and clueless.Since your in middle school,you should find boys in your grade,cause this creep sounds like trouble,and he sounds like a player.
2007-03-17 17:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋