i'm 13 and he's terning 16 in a week he keeps saying he loves me and wount stop asking me four sex!
2007-03-17 09:58:05 · 11 answers · asked by MEGAN (HOTTIE) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not preaching--but 13 is too young!! He is telling you he loves you to GET sex--boys at 16 (not all of them but some) at that age think they are ready for sex and will say and do whatever it takes to get sex from a girl--and another thing is that you should never do something just because someone else wants you to--what if he just wants sex and then leaves you?? You are in control of your life, not him. If he leaves you because you dont
want to have sex then he never really loved you. Good luck and please please think this over before making any decisions!! I first had sex at 20 and I'm glad I waited that long, it was worth it.
2007-03-17 10:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I strongly suggest waiting. You are still very young. I don't say that to make you angry or to sound like I am talking down to you. There are so many repercussions that can come from having sex that at 13 you are not well prepared to handle them. You can get pregnant or an STD. Really think long and hard before you make the decision. If your boyfriend really cares about you then he should not be forcing you to have a sexual relationship before you are ready.
2007-03-17 10:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by navy wife 1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are much to young for sex, and much much much much too young unless you're one of those rare teenage girls who's sex-obsessed and might as well start early.
Unfortunately, you're going to need to change boyfriends. This guy is an immature, inconsiderate jerk and he's not going to grow up fast enough for the relationship to work.
That doesn't make him a bad person; he's only 16, after all! But it makes him a bad person to be involved romantically with at this time.
2007-03-17 11:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl well i know you are going to think i am just some old lady who has nothing better to do then bash out teenagers but im not i am 19 and i am telling you...don give it up to him...only have sex when you are ready...and i am not some Little christian, daddy's little girl either...i got kicked out of school (when i was in 7th grade)for having sex in the school hallway...yea it is a long story but it was with the love of my life and still is.Then we were together for 2 years and i am telling you dont do it unless you are in love.
2007-03-17 10:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At thirteen sex is just about a guy climbing on top of you... wait until you are older and really in love and it will be much more special... plus if you have to ask a bunch of strangers if your ready for sex you are not ready!
2007-03-17 10:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by angela a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your not ready, you shouldn't do what you don't want to do. If he truly loves you like he says he does, he wouldn't have a problem waiting for you and wouldn't continue to pressure you. You should talk to him and tell him how you feel and if he can't understand that then you shouldn't waste your time with him anyway.
2007-03-17 10:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by deanna2fine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can tell you whether or not to have sex, it's a personal decision. I wouldn't, not because you're too young, but because he seems like an asshole.
2007-03-17 10:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by ahirock9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him...why have a half an hour of pleasure...but a lifetime of misery, if you get pregnant...if he really loved you he wouldn't be pressuring you...even if you don't get pregnant, you would be giving up some something very important...when you get married, the best gift you can give your husband is your virginity
2007-03-17 10:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jessicca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that when he is 21 and you are 18 you will think about it... if he marries you first !
LOL
2007-03-17 10:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you might get pregnant then you willgain tons of weight!! stayin school and makehim wait until your 21!
2007-03-17 10:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by PASSIONS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋