i really like this guy who is my guy best mate.
earlier in the week, as you can see from my other questions, he told me something i didnt want to know. i fell out with him.
now i miss him and would really like to call him to apologise for some of the things i said.
but im really nervous about it.
my horoscope says i have to say the things that must be said.
i know i have to call him or we'll never speak again.
i sent him a text last night apologising. my mum was fiddling with my phone and sent a draft of a text to him i was sending to him a couple of weeks ago. this text wasn't really important, but it was asking why he hadn't called me in a couple of days. now i feel awkward. i dont know how to phone him and apologise and say sorry, especially since he hasn't responded to my apology text.
aaargh =[.
any advice would be appreciated. especially some advice on what to say to him when i call him.
=] x
2007-03-17 09:49:07 · 5 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont do anything ,if he received the text your mum sent and then another you will seem like a stalker.do nothing if he replies ..good...if he doesnt..then i need to say no more..good luck.
2007-03-17 09:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop pretending your mum sent the text and just call him. There is nothing better than 1 to 1 conversation to clear the air and find out where you stand. If after you have called him it is negative, then so what - at least you tried and he is now being the pratt. Don't worry about him as life is really so short that you will look back and say 'How pathetic' - good luck and I hope his reaction to your call is favourable, but if not ...............let it go. There are plenty more men and friends.
2007-03-17 16:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by freddy the newf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to know exactly where you stand with this man, there's no getting away from it, you have to be DIRECT with him.
Forget any other forms, you have to take the bull by the horns and call him. Forget any further apologies, he's already received them from you, he knows your sorry.
Tell him EXACTLY how you feel, laying your cards on the table this way will leave you very open and vulnerable to rejection BUT at least you will know!
If your feelings are not reciprocated, then you must accept this and tell him that although your disappointed, you value him as a friend.
GOOD LUCK
2007-03-17 17:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lizzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do call him and say: hi, i no your angry right now and im sorry,
but what you said really confused me and made me feel up set. i dont want our friends ship to end over dead end emotions.
(mabey right him a letter saying this or say it on the phone,or to his face)
2007-03-17 17:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs E Cullen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him. Boys sometimes dont understand deep feelings. Explain you dont want to lose him.
2007-03-17 17:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by reml 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋