Am i being played, or does she actually like me?

Question

were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else

i asked this girl to the movies the other day, not as a date, but just said, lets go movies tonite...., she accepted, then said " will you be paying for my movie???"....whats that mean??i said yes of course...is that a hint?She seems quite unstable at the moment, and i want to take it easy with her, should i not ask her to things so often, and let it slowly grow?and maybe when i do see her, show her signs that im into her???....Shes always saying how she loves the single life etc.....dont know where i stand.

Answer 1

She's not playing you, she just doesn't know for sure if you like her or not. Go to the movies tonight and pay for it, afterwards, go out to some dinery and tell her. Be ready for both answers but as long as you know that she knows, then you can be sure if she's playing you or not. She likes you, you just let her know for sure that you share the same feelings! Good Luck!
A.L.