We've been dating almost 2 years but lately I'm worried. A lot of times I feel like I'm sacrificing my own needs to cater to his - in school, socially, even sexually. He says I monopolize his time but he always WANTS to spend his free time at my house and says he misses me when we're apart only a few hours.
I care about him tons but I constantly feel this worry about him. He easily is able to make me cry and I sometimes can't help but feel like he takes advantage of my emotions. We both have completly different morals and personalities..I feel so secure with him. But I'm just not sure if he's worth it...how can you decide if someone is worth it in the long run?
2007-03-17 09:45:03 · 5 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You never know. Because you could break up with him and find someone else and know he's-not your old bf this new guy- the one or you could never find anyone who makes you feel the same way your current boyfriend does. You will never know about the long run because we can't go into the future and if we could a lot of grief would be saved but thats what makes life interesting, choices. Just go with whatever in your minds eye feels like the right thing to do. If he takes advantage of your emotions he might not be worth it but if you guys have different morals and personalities than maybe you should stay with him because then you have a better variety of what you'll be able to do as a couple. Just follow what your heart tells you and everything will work out. Let everything just play out. Obviously if you have been with him for 2 years you both love each other very much. People have their rough spots, but don't stay with him if you're not happy but if you are then stay with the person who makes you happiest in the world. Men will take advantage sometimes, but usually only when they find it completely necessary. Be sure of what you want because your future is up to you. Just try to think of things you love about him and make you want to be with him and think of life without him and what you could do without him and which one you feel better about is the one you pick. Only trust yourself. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-03-17 09:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by Team Potter(screw Twilight)<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not ever going to work if you two have different morals and personalities, so move on with your life sister. There is no need to try and figure out what is wrong with this clown and why he is putting you through all these changes after only 2 years into this relationship. Email if you have more questions, I am a real expert in this area (but need more details). Good Luck!!!
2007-03-17 10:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he is taking advantage of you and nobody wants thtat do they??
You should ask him about how he feels towards you and see what he says. You might need to let him know that you have another life besides him-reality. That you can't spend ALL your time with him but with your other friends and family!!!
You have to break it to him that you can't always be there wit him even if you want too.
2007-03-17 09:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by smileyfaces4u2u2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. why does he make you cry? to show you he loves you? yes, he's manipulating you. after being with someone for two years, it's natural to worry about starting over, but that's what you need to do. this time with a guy that makes you laugh, not cry.
2007-03-17 09:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Sexually?" Get rid of him.
Don't waste your time in life.
2007-03-17 09:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋