Ok I have the best boyfriend in the whole world and I love him to death, but he has a lot of girl "friends" and sometimes I feel like he would rather hang with them than me. But only sometimes, I dont think he does it on purpose but when it happens I feel very sad and upset and like he doesnt love me anymore. What should I do, should I tell him how I feel or just forget about it?
2007-03-17 09:27:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is truly commited to you, he will spend more time with you than he does with his lady friends.
Tell him your feelings. COMMUNICATION!!!
Don't forget that.
2007-03-17 09:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you feel this way? Is it becasue you are being unreasonable or too possessive of him? If you were girlfriend and boyfriend, would you want him not to speak to, or communicate with any others? If you become to possessive, repressive, or sommering over him, he mayy grow to resent this in you. That would not serve the realtionship well.
Tell yourself, thru "self talk" that things are ok. It is not the end of the relationship if he talks to ther girls. That is it ok if he has other firnds. As you convience yourself that things are ok, you will feel better about it and in turn will probably be a better friend to him too.
2007-03-17 09:33:18 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would sit him down and tell him what you think about him and his girl"friends".tell him you like how he's in touch with his feminin side but you want some time with him to....it also seems like when's around them it give him this feeling like he's a player no matter if he's friend to them or not...i would tell him either way...state your bounderys with him...you obviousley love him because your a worried GF...so tell him...and if he doesn't listen to you the 1st or 2nd possibley the 3rd then that's when you might want to break it off with this guy..
GOOD LUCK!!i really hope things work out with you and your boyfriend!
2007-03-17 09:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by sarah h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would def. tell him how you feel. i dont think that he should choose any other girl over you and if he does then its not right but just tell him exactly what you think and if he stops doing it then he really loves u if he doesn't then you might want to question it
2007-03-17 13:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him how you feel. He probably doesn't even realize that he's doing it. I'm sure that if you're honest with him about what's going on..things will get better. Good luck!
2007-03-17 09:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by Lucie<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably goin on and on bout u to his frineds anyway lol but u should try and make friends witht hem as well. you should suggest u all go do somthin together. i bet they would be great for advice on him too . and ofcourse u should tell him how u feel, guys can be pretty dense sometimes lol goodluck
2007-03-17 09:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by meshelle2kz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that same problem with my boyfriend but after i told him how i felt he stopped, he only mess with them cuz they are doing something that you are not doing like oral sex or something but dont get stress out just tell him
2007-03-17 09:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM HOW YOU REALLY FEEL! AND SEE WHATS HAPPENS. HE SHOULD INVOLVE YOU WHEN HE'S HANGING OUT WITH THESE OTHER GIRLS. GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-17 09:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by kind1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok a lot of guys like to make theyre gf mad cuz they think its hot. that may be wut he's doin. talk to him about it.
2007-03-17 09:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋