I'm scared......................?

Question

well im 15 and im going out with the love of my life,we are really close and we can talk about anything to each other,we can even talk about sex ,i think i might be ready but i told him to wait a bit ,is this the right thing to do?i am also scared about my body,i have stretch marks on my legs(thighs)and im really protective of them and i dont want him to see them because i feel scared of what he will say what can i do,?i have tried all them bio oils and styff and they dont work!they make me feel really fat when im a average size,what do i do ,im in a bit off a mess!?please help

Answer 1

He won't care about stretch marks at all. Someday you will have a baby and your man won't care about those stretch marks either. Men look at the whole picture while women look at the details. This is why men don't notice if you got your hair trimmed or your nails done. We are a lot less picky about the small things. That said, 15 is still a bit young. I would say wait.

Answer 2

you made the best decsion you will make in your life at this point. You told him to wait, you dont know me but I will say that I am proud you told him to wait. your only 15. I lost my v-card at 15 and I wish I had not. I was to young and unable to deal with what came along with it. the mental, emotinal, and physical side effects. The stress that you put yourself through when you have sex is alot. for one minute sit there and think to yourself how you would break the news to him and your family that you are pregnat or that you got an std. Not something fun to think about but thats what could happen if you decide to have sex. Be young you have such a great life ahead of you, getting your license, becoming leagal, begin able to drink these are big steps in a being a young adult if you have a baby it will be tought to do all those things. so like I said I am glad you waited. as for the streth marks try useing some coco butter theat may work. good luck

Answer 3

First of all you are 15 yrs old you shouldn't be thinking of sex right now and I know you are going to think I am old fashion but when you wait you wont be so self conscious about your body think of it this way have you ever seen a real pretty rose and after every one has held it and felt it and carried it it doesnt look the same well the same with you what he isnt the one and you give yourself to him and it doesnt work out and then you meet someone its a very bad cycle I would take it as fun and if he really loves you he will wait until the right time at the marriage altar

Answer 4

Get in the real world girl you are only 15 Think about it? When he has had sex with you he will no longer want to be a part of you. And if you get pregnant then you have mega problems. If I was you get rid or him or keep your legs crossed this advice comes from a girl not many years older than you. I have been there read the book and worn the T shirt
( The Heartbreaker)

Answer 5

Make sure you know the difference between love & lust...At your age, you should be enjoying being around friends instead of being tied down with a guy (especially during your school years) Don't have sex with him! You will thank me later for saying that after you two break up. As far as stretch marks.. you should talk to a doctor about how to get rid of them.

Answer 6

just be yourself with him.You can talk with him about everything, don't you?If he is "the love of your life" he will like those signs on your legs because they are yours...but I wouldn't be so sure that he is the love of your life only because you have a lot in common...think a lot before doing what you intend. It's a very important moment of anyone's life. Think that some persons wait for it until the day they marry..I think 15 is too early.. at least spend a few months with him and then think of getting that close...

Answer 7

15!!!!that is young don't ya think.and i am only 13.anyways you will be hearing this one comment from every one use protection if ya going to do it.i think you shouldn't but if you do.he shouldn't care one thing about the scratches.u could get disease u know think about it.And one more thing LOVE OF YOUR LIFE u must be kidding.i never had one boy friend are one kiss or date.even i know u cant have a love of your life unless your really lucky.your probably thinking shut up u dumb 13 year old you don't know any thing.you might say that but still... ask your folks.

Answer 8

love your body girl! You shouldn;t jump the gun about sex just yet. wait until marriage, this will help you decide what you really want in your future. and your body is bueatiful! when you get out the shower or when youre changing clothes or even when your just look into the mirror tell yourself that. i'm serious it works. every part of your body that you don't like tell yourself you love it. i used to be a self-concious person but i learned how to love myself, besides who do i really have to love 365 out the year? respect starts with yourself first always. we all have bueaties, and maybe its difficult for you see them, but just maybe your scared you'll find too much bueaty!

Answer 9

It's really scary to show your body to anybody! I can promise you that even supermodels have flaws on their bodies. That's why they use so much makeup and artist brushups. Noone is perfect.

I would just pray that he loves you for who you are and how you make him feel, NOT about all the flaws. He obviously feels you have a pretty face and there's chemistry if he's so close to you. I would be confident in that.

If he doesn't like what he sees, then he's not mature enough or a good enough friend for you. It'll hurt so bad but you have to let him go if he's not man enough to love you for who you are even with flaws. He's probably got flaws, too!

Answer 10

You're doing the right thing by waiting to have sex, wait until you and him are both ready. And, don't worry about those stretch marks, all girls have them, even on their boobs. In the heat of the moment, a guy won't care about a few stretch marks.