okay so theres this girl i used to like a lot. i told her that and nothing really happened so i stopped trying. I stopped talking to her but shes been trying to call me and such but i dont pick up her calls anymore. i guess i still like her but i'm done trying to get with her. so is it a good move on my part avoiding her for a little while? or what should i do?
2007-03-17 08:54:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is okay to play hard to get for a short time - it might make her more interested. But timing is key here, you don't want her to get bored or exhausted and move on.
2007-03-17 08:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by ddot2882 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i hate game playing but if you are going to play the game, yes you just keep avoiding her for a little while more
For some reasons girls like when guys treat them like sh**
But even when you start communicating to her, don't be easy to get...girls like the chase, and makes you more appealing. If she asks to go out say you have plans the first few times, etc.
Again, this is not the best way of handling yourself but this is the reality of what seems to work out there.
2007-03-17 15:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mark H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did a bad thing. If you want to go out with her, atleast be her friend. Maybe you'll realize you really don't like her. Or maybe you'll like her more and maybe she'll start having an interest on you. i hope i answered your question. Good Luck :)
2007-03-17 15:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she likes you too then you shouldnt try avoiding her, you should go for it since you still have some feelings for her.
if you dont like her anymore, then just move on.
2007-03-17 15:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah thats kinda freaky.......the guy i like (who happends to be my bestfriend) is doing that to me......umm well...hmm....i cant really help u....but i guess i would call her and justtalk to her about it. honestly that what i want my friend to do. I mean i know i still like the guy i never really stoped liking him. I thought he didnt like me so i stopped trying.
ur going back and forth just like we are....
hope this helps a little
2007-03-17 15:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by Kay-Bianca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... it is like torture! I just went through tht with a guy who told me he wanted me to go out with him... and that is exactly what the guy did to me... But take it from my perspective... it is hard to not know what is going on..... Just being honest.... Tell her so she knows and can move on...
2007-03-17 15:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by larua_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like her and it might seem she likes you, if you keep ignoring her you might lose tha chance on seeing her. but it is totally up to you. If you don't then keep doing what your doing and ignore her calls and she will give up.
2007-03-17 15:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes sad she dosnt get the attention anymore
2007-03-17 15:58:25 · answer #8 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you and you like her so start answering her phone calls.I bet you are just breaking her little heart right about now.Think about..........CALL HER BACK
2007-03-17 15:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by halleyluvu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ignore her maybe she wants to date. if you date and decide you don't like each other then she prolly won't call you anymore.
2007-03-17 15:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by hickgirl4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋