2007-03-17 08:47:07 · 24 answers · asked by santana w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we've been hanging out for a lil while now. he takes me to a dance club and the movies and ridign round and stuff like that. and il ike him alot i just don't know what to do
2007-03-17 08:51:07 · update #1
we've been hanging out for a lil while now. he takes me to a dance club and the movies and ridign round and stuff like that. and il ike him alot i just don't know what to do plus he is in the navy. so ?
2007-03-17 08:53:11 · update #2
nomatter what happens DO NOT HAVE SEX! i mean no one can tell you not to see him coz if you like him alot then you'll always find reasons to go out with him. just be careful. it happens to the best of us. dont fall into the trap of thinking you are in love and that sex is the thing to do when you feel like that. (i would know because my friend is 17 and pregnant with a 23yr old guy who lied to her about alot of things and is in jail for reasons we dont even know because he, again, is a liar). if yall are just having fun then do so by hanging out, watching movies and sticking to rated PG activities. hope you make the right decisions coz its really hard to take back something as special as your V-card. guys his age tend to have different agendas and sometimes change their priorities alot so just be smart about hanging out with him.
2007-03-17 10:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by meju 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know what your going into but most of all take it SLOW! i necessarially don't agree with this but unfortuntely my sister is 6 years younger than her boyfriend. She's 20 now butshe started to date him when she was 18 but she didnt do anything. She took it slow, put everything else first such as school and activities and then gave time for him. Its been 3 years for them but the one thing that they did is involved their parents.
And for you, I'm afraid your too young to make a choice like this so i would stay as friends. Nothing more. And i say this because a 14 year old doesnt really have good judgement since their not mature enough to handle the consequences. I was going to get involved with a guy that was twenty 23 and I was 17 at the time but i cut it off because i knew it was wrong in my heart.
Just keep it as friends and later on it may happen. And plus guys are all about getting some honey even if thei claim that they don't want anything else or do anything to you. But they will, deep down inside, it'll come out eventually.
2007-03-17 08:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dewy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm close to your age...so this advice is from a peer. If he is 19 and dating you it's wrong, it's supposed to be his responsiblity to say this isn't right-No matter even if he loved you to death. It's against the law and dangerous. You probably don't see that, but if there's such a huge age gap you just never know what might happen... Like I said-what should have happened was for him to put this off. If he won't do it, I think you should get out of this relationship. Tell him that if it's meant to be-you two will surely meet again in the future.
2007-03-17 08:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're in the U.S. he could get into serious trouble. I don't think it's wrong, but a lot of people out there do, so you should at least keep it on the down low. If you're in Canada 14 is the minimum age and you don't have to worry about anything.
2007-03-17 08:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by Pallas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advice is if you like him you will break it off, otherwise you are going to send him to jail if he is caught. If you don't care than it would mark you as a selfish person, but if you do care and he doesn't have the sense to break it off than you should. Why do you think someone at college age is interested in someone who just entered HS? Think about that answer really closely before you continue.
2007-03-17 08:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by Mark H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wate you are 14 and is dating a 19 year old guy thats how old my sisters boyfreind is and shes 19 . any ways my cuzin did the same thing and she found out that he only wanted her because of her breast and he raped her so be care ful and wach out if he trys to do any thing to you and your too young to have a bf im 13 and i still dont have one but i can tell you that a bunch of guys ask me out alot but bee care ful and you can get in trubble a lot do your parents now about this and how do they feel about this???????????? if he says he loves you the hes maybe trying to trck you i think you shouldnt be with him
2007-03-17 08:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally if you date in your early teens you should be dating someone closer to your own age. The 19 year old should know that.
2007-03-17 08:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK that is called underaged rape. You guys can get in so much trouble if someone finds out. You can be put on probation and the person you are going out with can be put in jail for awhile. So get out of it if you don't want to get into trouble. Stay in it if you love them and you don't care what happens. Its your choice and no one elses.
2007-03-17 08:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking is ALL you two better be doing!!! At 14 you are classified as a minor and your friend could end up in jail.
2007-03-17 08:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my BEST friend is dating a 16 or 17 yr old and shes 13,to tell u the truth i dont think its right!but u should do what feels right,but just be carefull.......u dont no what could happen.but i think he/she is to old for u!oh and just so u no im on my brothers account on here....
2007-03-17 08:52:18 · answer #10 · answered by aron........ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋