can anyone tell me were i am going wrong..i been single for years and i just cant seem to find a decent guy..im in the west midlands
2007-03-17 08:44:16 · 23 answers · asked by justlikkleoldme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel your pain, having difficulty finding one is scotland as well!
try joining a gym, doing an evening class, going to the pub a couple of evenings a week with friends, not only will this take up so much time you will have forgot you want a man it will also give you the opportunites to find one.
2007-03-17 08:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by laneyb_1983 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to those who say it will happen when you least expect it, I can assure you it doesn't. They are the lucky ones that the opposite sex just turn up at any time. I know a lady who doesn't have to leave the house and gets a date People like you and I are the unlucky ones who are never in the right place at the right time. Iv'e always said if i was in a room with a thousand Lady's I would still be on my own. The only thing I will say many years ago I use to put an add in the paper and it worked and I had a great time.
2007-03-17 09:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by rocky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the big problem is...people tend to try too hard to find that mate..and very often end up alone because they have chosen poorly. My advice is to BE YOURSELF always. Don't try too hard and sooner or later the right guy will come along and you'll sweep each other off your feet.
People tend to settle and end up with the wrong person....mostly out of lonliness.... don't make that mistake. The only other advice I can give is to be a complete person by yourself first. Don't expect that a man can complete you... if tha's what your looking for now...your doomed from the beginning. Be emotionally secure and confident on the inside and your inner beauty and personality will shine through and atract a wonderful man. But if you are looking for a man to complete you....it will never happen.
2007-03-17 09:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right here's the position I have a tendency to fulfill fantastic unmarried adult men... a million. stay shows/stay music venues 2. carrying suits 3. Bars (be choosey with which bar to visit inspite of the actuality that, many are truly sleazy!) 4. college campus 5. acquaintances' activities also, i have not finished it in my view, yet I actually have heard good issues about % courting. Do you've it the position you're from? You get a set of unmarried girlfriends at the same time and signal in for a % courting journey, and spend a evening 'interviewing' a huge style of unmarried adult men, from that you %. those that tickle your fancy, with the purpose to talk. that's meant to be a tender-hearted and sensible thanks to fulfill potential companions. and also you get a drink or 2 loose!!
2016-12-02 03:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one thing could be is that you are categorising your "dream man" and are being a little to materialistic. If you have people who know you very well and that you can trust they will be able to tell you your faults and how you may be able to work around them. The right man can be your boss or ANYONE you also have to explore and not just think you will find your Prince charming in your city/town. But, you also have to be careful because their are sick individuals in this world
2007-03-17 09:14:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find the answer let me know. I'm good-looking, funny, intelligent, and in the same situation. I am even changing my job in the hopes I can meet someone "naturally". The gym, web-sites, societies and sport have given me a lot fo fun, but alas, no man is on the horizon. Good luck!
2007-03-17 08:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by tinkerbell34 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe your being too picky.ill tell you,they are out there.its a little bit like buying a car,you have to test drive them first.ok,fix yourself up really nice and go out on the town.maybe some of your friends can hook you up with someone decent.i know how you feel.(oh,by the way iam a man)iam 58 and it wasnt until 7 yrs ago,i could find someone who wasnt a bimbo.good luck.
2007-03-17 09:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
location, location, location. it's a fact, women don't like "nice" men. and most men know this, don't expect him to be wearing a t-shirt that says " nice guy" on it. your opinion of decent may vary from another persons, decent to you could mean he won't screw half the neighborhood, as to where decent to another could mean he has their breakfast made every morning. maybe that's why you are single, you haven't really decided what you want. do you usually just get in your car and drive without a plan of where you are going? that's what you are doing to your love life. driving without a destination in mind. good luck
2007-03-17 08:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Me too... and i'm not ugly, well my friends and people i meet say i'm not ugly and cant understand why i cant find a guy. I have no idea... been single for a very long time. Can get oiled but cant find a boyfriend. and the dating sites are too scary, dude!!!!
2007-03-17 10:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by chiccigyal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friends, if you want honesty, will break it down to you since they see you at your best and worst. It's hard to critique onself and see what you're doing, you sometimes need someone who sees you from the outside and how you operate. We don't know you here so asking strangers or thinking it's location at fault, is not the way to go, honey.
2007-03-17 08:48:10 · answer #10 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋