me, i have trouble telling someone i love that i do. from my past issues if my dad ect. now i really like this guy from school yes, we have a past. we went out for 7months. i dumped him out of fear of getting hurt and i hear he was cheating on me. i met the girl a few weeks ago (it was fake she didn't even know him). me and him have been apart for 3months and i see him every day i wish i was in his arms but when i told him how i felt and we spoke for a long time he said that he didn't want to get hurt again and that theirs to much going on in his life now. he might be moving away. what do i do as a stand here as a idiot?????? heartbroken.. how do i get over him or will he come back? if so will it be the same? when i tried speaking to my mom she didn't even let me finish she said he is no good and that she doesn't like him now what?
2007-03-17 08:22:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes when you tell the one you dumped that you want them back, the first thing on their mind is one of two things: 1) They rush into your arms, or 2) they nail you for nailing them, then rush into your arms. Its human nature to want to hurt the one who hurt you. Maybe he is just hurt and not ready to jump in again. Give him time. You're not a fool, you told him you were sorry and that you love him and want him back. Now back off. Smile at him, be really nice to him if he talks to you and don't be afraid to be loving and open towards him if you get the chance.
If you don't get the chance, move on. Maybe you'll learn something from this situation. That's what young love is for.
2007-03-17 08:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry sweetie, but truth-be-told, it sounds like you missed the boat. I know what your going through. It took me 2 months, 2 deaths, and an emotional breakdown to finally say "I Love You" to my guy. And even now, I wonder if he loves me. It's neither mine nor his (nor your) fault. It's that you and I both have trust issues.
Don't obsess over your mistakes. Take a deep breath and learn that this was meant to teach you something. And tell yourself "I'm not going to make this mistake again" over and over again until it's drilled into your mind. That way, when you meet the guy who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with him, you won't let go out of fear.
2007-03-25 07:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by Snow Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is really true love it will come back to you. The guy is being honest with you. He is doing other things, so you do other things too. Finish school. Many guys will come and go. If you try to push yourself on someone like him that already express his honesty--you think your heart is broken! It would be worst. Let Go, Let God! and pray more.
2007-03-17 08:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you he will come back. If you really love him, you will go on loving until he will be touched and will come back. Even if he doesn't come back, you will find another guy, so do not worry. Just live and love. Remember, u a born to be happy.
2007-03-25 06:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by Maria Monsegur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not really sweat the issue you are young and will fall in love several more times!
2007-03-25 08:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for someone new to go out with... there better guys out there if u need anymore advice aim at gurr90
2007-03-17 08:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by giantsy2k3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋