Well you see, this guy and I have been together since november. Just like a day ago, he took me that he had some feelings for this girl, named Nancy. But he still liked me though. when I heard that, I feel kinda sad and angry at the same time. I mena, he promise me that he won't like another girl, but he did.We both promise eachother to not change, but I know it's his choice if he wanted to change or not. But I just feel kinda werid inside. I don't know what should I do now. Should I break up with him? I know I don't want to, but if he stays with me and his heart is on another girl, what's the point of being with him. Why don't I just let him go? For one thing I know, he doesn't want to break up, cause he still like me. But he also liked another girl. TO me its wrong to like 2 girls at the same time. I mean its not wrong, but its bad. So what should I do now. Well, Nancy also had a boyfriend,their relationship is not that good.so if we break up my bf will have a chance to be with Nancy
2007-03-17 08:21:02 · 9 answers · asked by xoxo§kailey§ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would break up with him because eventually he may fall for Nancy and dump you. Thats just how guys are. I would break up with him. He isn't worth it anymore.
Good Luck I will keep you in prayer!
2007-03-17 08:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to let him go because you like him a whole lot more than he likes you. It sound like he is with you until somone better comes along, right now it's Nancy, and he's keeping you around in case Nancy doesn't work out. I'd lose him and find a guy who will be true to you and keep his word.
2007-03-17 15:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would tell him to pick, i would say " Its either her or me." If he picks her, then don't cry to much about it because he won't be worth it if he choses another girl.If he chooses you, then i don't think you have anything to worry about, just tell him that your not the kinda girl that wants a guy that likes 2 girls, you only want him to have one, and if he continues to like her, then you might wanna have a talk to him about it. Maybe you should even talk to Nancy and tell her whats going on. maybe say that he's yours for right now unless y'all break up and ask her not to interfere with your relationship. Good luck!
2007-03-17 15:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing, you can't promise to not like other people. it's just not possible for you to expect your guy to not notice other girls. he's a dude. respect that.
now to the real problem. if he likes this girl Nancy, i wouldn't worry about it. guys have little crushes on girls they think are hot all the time. if he still loves you and still wants to be with you, don't sweat it. if you don't want to break up with your guy, DON'T. and remember- he's YOUR guy.
2007-03-17 15:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by fab expert101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this same problem a little while ago. First you should take him and ask him how much he likes her, then ask him if he wants to be with her or you. He's a guy, things like this happen. If he choses you then don't break up with him.
2007-03-17 15:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by sylvia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that now doesn't seem like the best time to be together and when he ahs his feelings in order that you will consider giving him another chance. Don't waste your time on something your not sure about. Follow you gut!
2007-03-17 15:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by Molly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well d answer 2 ur question lies in ur question only......well thre is no point in contuinuin.. a relationship wich is partially dead ....c'mon he likes another girl wot does tht mean he lost intrest in u....he is jst sayin such thng coz he himslef is confused he doent knw whther he still likes u n is tryin 2 knw tht..by makin promises 2 u..... i thnk u shouldnt wait more ....u should ask him whether dis gonna work or not.....well i thnk better end it....i knw its not tht easy but wots d point otherwise...d more time u wil tk d more u wil b hurt .....so better make a sensible decision...tk ur time...talk 2 him...even clear him of his confusion....i hope u reach 2 a conclusion......k tc
2007-03-17 15:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by naturelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say goodbye...Its just a matter of time b4 he leaves you for her...better now then later.
2007-03-17 15:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you deserve to be with someone who like you AND only you
2007-03-17 15:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋