When my boyfriend kisses me, i love it and i want to participate, but i can't. i just to go with the flow. i think i might be holding back, but i don't not no why..
Can anyone help me. Thankyou
2007-03-17 08:21:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really like/ love him, are you scared to get too attached for fear he might breakup with you? If thats not the problem, make a list.Sounds retarded I know, but make a list of the good and the bad Then analyze it. If you still dont know why?
Talk it out with him. If hes really into you like you are into him, he will listen. You need to feel comfortable talking about anything with him. Not trying to be offensive AT ALL, but does he want to take it up a notch and you are not ready to? maybe you feel like you wont be able to control the situaton if it gets to heavy for you.. Make sure you feel safe with how far you let it go.. I hope it all works out for you honey. I hope he understands how you feel too.
2007-03-17 08:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by heatherclhn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 19:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your not ready for a full on kiss yet, try kissing his cheek, ear lobe, neck, nose and forehead to get used to being the one with control, then when you are ready the lips wont pose such a problem
2007-03-17 08:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by laneyb_1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you worried about it going further. You don't say how old you are.You are maybe just not ready and he needs to respect that. Remember you and only you know when the time is right.
2007-03-17 08:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by laney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds paradoxical! You said you want and then you hold it back ... if you feel not comfortable just tell him "No" and if you feel okay it is "Yes". Emotions can get inturrupted with gray colors.
2007-03-17 08:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With his on yours, move your lips, stroke his face, hold him tighter, play with your tongue, put passion into it, breath heavily, even when faking, that's also kissing, and he will love it.
2007-03-17 08:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i know whats holding you back.i think you probably think,your not a good enough kisser for him.your probably nervous.just relax and let him have it.let him decide how you are.
2007-03-17 08:29:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
purse your lips grab him by the face and snog his head off
shove your tongue right down his throat till it reaches his knees and grip his bum for support
2007-03-17 08:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by david r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just need some practice. You're probably just too nervous.
2007-03-17 08:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just kiss him
2007-03-17 08:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by shortyb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋