okay would you date me im 5''9 average weight reddish brown hair brown eyes i like to play volleyball i like to shoot basketball b ut not play i run everyday im a vey happy person im always hyper im always moving im very talkitive i always have a opinion about everything and im very technical when you try to tell me that i did something i didn't do but i have low self estem i think im ugly i think im fat i might be in a good mood all the time but on the inside i feel left out i have hot guy friends and ive liked some of them and ive asked them out but they just say no is there something wrong with me no one likes me and ive been out with three guys one was nice but used me for money and the other just thought i was a joke and my last one just wanted me for sex and we broke up and now he wants us to be friends with benefits so is there some thing wrong with me or not oh would you date me and im 14 i forgot that part sry please help me ..........................................!!!!!!
2007-03-17 08:10:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Phew, Ever hear of the period at the end of sentences? I was out of breath by the time I finished the post. Reminds me of "Stream of consciousness" by famous authors.
You need to remember that you are fourteen. Many of the issues you list as true of you are true of most fourteen year olds. You are too tough on yourself. Just relax and be your age and forget all these adult complaints. You are being manipulated by the culture, MySpace, magazines etc.
You will be just fine with some patience. Trust me.
2007-03-17 08:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One question, how old are those guy friends of yours? Here's a lesson for you, hot guys=not serious into relationships, well most. They just want to have fun and are usually cocky because they think their hot looks will make them get any girl they want. Its wrong that they used you for the fact that they were your friends. You should question wheter they are your real friends or not. Anyway, dont feel bad for yourself, just because you havent gotten any guys yet, it doesnt mean no guy likes you. Your were going for the wrong guys when you asked your so called guy friends out. Everybody is beautiful in their own ways, so dont feel bad about yourself. Confidence is what men find girls attractive, so start being more confident about yourself and maybe more guys will like you! Good luck.
2007-03-17 08:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha okay u might wanna add some punctuation in there, its a little hard to read. i doubt there is anything wrong with you, ur only 14, so its not a big deal that you havent had a good boyfriend yet. sex? 14? okay, that guy is a jerk so dump him completely, no to friends with benefits. good luck and dont worry about it, ur 14, and theres PLENTY of time for guys and good relationships. dont just give up ur body to some jerk just because everyone else is...
2007-03-17 08:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your 14 and have a hold life ahead of you. So just be a good girl and get througth school. Boy will be boys and in time you will find the rigth one for you or he may find you.
2007-03-17 08:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by Dallas S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im kinda like that, i run everyday, i play rugby, and i'm always humorous(wow that sounded like a dating site "about me" o well) I'm 14 and you sound hot to me
2007-03-17 08:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not date you because 1st, I'm happily being with someone at this time. 2nd, you're under age, that would get me in trouble if I date you or your parents will give me trouble.
2007-03-17 09:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit worry about things so freakin much
2007-03-17 08:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by David Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too young for me, kiddo.
2007-03-17 08:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋