2007-03-17 08:09:19 · 26 answers · asked by dass d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At least be a good dad.
2007-03-17 08:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Idle Chitchat 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well sounds like this has been a rocky relationship and I'm wonder if this has been a repeated action of her lying or if it was only a one time thing. If this is the first time and you are in love with her and want to work it out(not only for the baby but for you) then you should give her a second chance. You should have a conversation about the things she does that you don't like or agree with. And maybe there are some things that you do which in turn cause her actions. Love is a two way street that requires work ALL the time so give her chance. If this a a continuous thing then take care of your child and keep peace with her for the sake of him/her. and congratulations on the baby. hope he/she is a happy, healthy bundle of joy( that could possibly bring you and your gf together)! good luck!
2007-03-17 15:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ki-Ki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are saying your pregnant girlfriend is a liar and of poor character. You are in a relationship with someone of that caliber and then you ask others what you should do. That does not make sense. You should have ended the relationship BEFORE she got pregnant. WHY weren't you using condoms?
There is a girl that will be single and pregnant without a husband or a father for her child. I hope you will pay child support and whatever hospital expenses the girl has to pay.
The ideal situation would be to put the baby up for adoption or abortion if is not too late...............Why do people get themselves into situations like this and then ask how to get out of it?
PLEASE do not be forced into getting married, that would the worst thing you could do..
2007-03-17 15:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself some space and a good place to think and over think and accept things that we sometimes do not believe in it. It can be hard, but take off from work, or some type of stress, go on a mountain and think and think and think. Even just shout all your anger, so it echos to your ears, that way you'll know it for sure, that your anger will be out.
Then sit with your GF, and discuss this. Communicate some way or another, so problems don't devolope deeper.
good luck
2007-03-17 15:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by Spark S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she's a liar and doesnt have a decent and good character, why did you get into a relationship in the first place and why did you get her pregnant?
if you really cannot accept her, you still have to be responsible for the child. dumping her, along with the child is a definite nono.... jerks do that.
you can sit down and have a peaceful and serious talk with her, tell her that you cant accept her for what she is but you're willing to take responsibilty for the child, meaning you will provide for the baby.
2007-03-17 15:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by Ori-Hime 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must have known she was a liar and not of good character before you got her pregnant.Was she just good enough to sleep with?
Or.......are you just using this as an excuse to not be with her?If she was good enough before then she should be good enough now.Get your priorities straight and stand up and be a man.You have an innocent child on the way.
You should have thought about all this before. and now an innocent child has to come into this world with a father who seemingly doesn't care.
I pray all goes well for that poor little baby as he's gonna need a lot of prayers and good luck along the way.
2007-03-17 15:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were a Man enough to lead her to a pregnancy then be a Man enough and complete your role as a father at least a child has nothing to do with your retreated committment and a mother's lies.
Responsibilities are thorns in the back of moments of pleasure ... so its a hope that Humanity can learn that life is made up of black and white and in between all the rainbow colors of understanding and love... so its our choice finally.
Hope that "might" help!
2007-03-17 15:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by Sara007 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop having sex with people that you think are liars and not of good character maybe?
Then you wouldn't have to "accept" them. It's too late now. You will always have to be involved in her life in one way or another. You're having a child together.
Be more responsible next time!
2007-03-17 15:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.Gaddis 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she is pregnant with your child you have an obligation to be there for your child. You cannot use the mother's behaviour to give yourself an out of your committment. If anything, you should keep a closer eye on this situation for sure if you think she will be a bad mother.
2007-03-17 15:13:55 · answer #9 · answered by teena9 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought about this before you had sex with her. Now you need to own up to your actions and take responsibility for your offspring. You don't need to necessarily be together, but do need to maintain a healthy relationship with her for the sake of the child. Good luck to you all.
2007-03-17 15:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, take care of your child and be there for him/her but just because you have a child together doesn't mean the relationship needs to continue especially if things like what you have described about her are involved.
2007-03-17 15:13:53 · answer #11 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋