PLEASE READ ...........Ok i got myself in a mess you see...I went out with this guy for 4 months and dumped him for his best friend ,then a day later i dump his friend and ask him back out.Then 2 days later i dump him for this other guy which is also his friend but me and the other guy never went out so i asked him back out and he took me back.Then one of my friends got the hook up i should say with the another guy so i go out with two guys right now!!!! Plus one of my other friends asked out another guy for me and he's going to give me a answer monday!!!! Im like freaking out.......Some people are calling me a player ...I don't like the name! My boyfreind that i had for 4 months still likes me alots.Im afraid im going to break his heart.He said i will always be his no matter who i go out with....HELP
2007-03-17 08:08:21 · 16 answers · asked by halleyluvu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you care if other people call you a player. People call men players all the time and we don't care. Do what feels right for you. As the song says: "If it makes you happy, it can't be that bad."
Guess what: Dating is not marriage. Just because you are dating one guy doesn't mean you can't date more. People often have a new date every week, that doesn't mean that they don't care about the people they're dating, it means that they are getting out and meeting people.
One last thing: You don't "dump" someone after 2 days. 4 months I can see, but if you were only going out for 2 days, that barely qualifies as going out, let alone being at a state where you could "dump" someone.
2007-03-17 08:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Right don't freak out OK dump all the guys you are going out with. If you still like the guy you when out with for 4 mouths then ask him out again and stay with him and stop cheating you will never get any were cheating like that and then maybe people will stop calling you a player.
2007-03-17 15:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... which guy do u like the most? & stick with him & don't ever dump him again. if u dont wanna go out with the guy, u can just tell him u cant go with him for some reasons in the nice way so u won't hurt his feeling.
2007-03-17 15:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by Dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your b/f is a weak person with no self esteem and you are taking advantage of him and his cowardness. Someday he will not take you back and then there you go crying and will find that you truley loved him and wanted to play also and you will hurt forever. He will move on and you will mentally be messed up forever. You might want to see what you are doing to him is effecting him in ways that you don't know just yet. Might want to be carefull. If I meet him I will love him and take care of him never doing him any wrong while you get on the net and make fun of doing that. Do you like what you see in the mirror?
2007-03-17 15:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It seems like you do not kno to go out with. Dont go to fast with dating because you want get the name of player anymore you will get another name. Just slow down and date other people not your ex's friends.
2007-03-17 15:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow..i honestly dont know where to begin.. i don't know how old you are.. but it sounds like a 6th grade relationship dilema..i mean who dates for one day? Anyways.. you have to be honest with both of them.. i guess in your case one at a time so things don't get ugly. But decide for yourslef what you DEFINETLY want before you do anything.
2007-03-17 15:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like maybe your not ready for a relationship right now. your not a player your just young and confused. I would suggest being single for a few months to give yourself time to think. if your bf of 4 months loves you he'll wait. good luck
2007-03-17 15:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by rosie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow, you have a foggy glass and cant see your priority's, get them straight
i would break up with whoever your dating now, and go out with your boyfriend of 4 months, and apologize and say you didnt know what you were thinking
and if people call you a whore/player, then say "i was on drugs" or something
i say that when people are like "YOU DATED THAT ONE CHICK???" then i say i was on drugs and they say "must have been" then its over
2007-03-17 15:13:59 · answer #8 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U brought this on urself. Should have stayed wit ta 4 month one. Which one do u want because u like him more.
2007-03-17 15:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by JoJo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
W-O-W!!!! ummmm thats a toughy, but i'd say to continue to go out with the one you have for 4 months if you still like him, if you don't then i'm sure with all the guys asking you, you will be able to find a guy you really love. I hope this helps! :)
2007-03-17 15:14:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋