Imagine you have never had a boyfriend.
You are admittedly insecure and low in confidence with guys.
A guy has started spending time with you. You flirt with him some, but also have occasional serious moments. He can be nice/sweet sometimes.
Assuming you like him..
How would you act around him?
Would you be scared of seeming "clingy"?
What would you do if he asked you to dinner and a movie?
What would be a good thing the guy could do?
Thanks.
2007-03-17 08:05:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont be scared around him just be your self. Try not to be to clingy. If he asked me dinner then i would go and have a good time. A good thing a guy could do is ask you out GD luck best answer plz x
2007-03-17 08:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you act around him?
I act like myself infront of guys. I have quite a few guy friends and would act the same around any guy that like me. I would probably drop a hint or compliment him.
Would you be scared of seeming "clingy"?
Yes, I would be scared of seeming clingy.
What would you do if he asked you to dinner and a movie?
Well, first of all I would be shocked. Then I would tell him that I thought it was nice of him to ask me. Then I would accept his invitation.
What would be a good thing the guy could do?
A good thing ANY guy can do is just be nice. Hold doors, open car doors, put her chair out, etc. And as boring as this may seem, try your best to pay attention. I know that I get annoyed when people don't listen to me.
Also, don't try to sleep with her. That will just show your wanting her for sex and don't want any kind of a real relationship with her.
Hope this helps!
2007-03-17 15:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
To be honest, I would always be myself. Always. That's the best thing to do, because let's be real, who wants someone that's acting and not themselves? I wouldn't necessarily be "clingy", but i would try to talk to him, ya know, just to say hi maybe once a day. If he asked me to dinner and a movie i would probably go just as friends (no need to rush into a relationship). If things went well and we were really considering taking it up a level and being serious, a good thing he could do is show some genuine interest. But if you really like that person, have confidence and go for it!
2007-03-17 15:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
All the things he's been doing to you is a hint that he likes you a lot. He wants to possibily ask you out. Just go out with him to dinner and a movie if he asks you. I would stick around with this guy a lot if I knew he like me because he could ask you out anytime soon. But don't be too clingy because you're not in a relationship with him yet. Just be friendly and flirt a lot with him.
2007-03-17 15:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think girls are always scared of becoming clingy or excessively needy. But if I liked him of course I'd accept his offer for dinner and a movie. The most wonderful thing he could do for me is just continue to show interest. That's the greatest compliment. We all have low confidence with guys. Dating is akward because we're exposing ourselves to the vulnerability of rejection.
2007-03-17 15:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by rumezzo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would act like my self around the guy, because the guys gotta like the whole package when it comes to me, but deffinitly a little mor flirty, and make up excuses to get closer
i would totally avoid trying to be clingy b/c c'mon guys aren't into that, so i'd sometimes just try to let him seem like the clingy one : P haha
i'd say yes silly. haha i'd look nice yet casual not too dressy or anything, put on a little bit of makeup and bring lots of mints and gum
call him and have him compliment you are always good things, and when he wants to talk to you and hang out with you.
and thank youu : ) haha
2007-03-17 15:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I tend to smile a lot. Her friends know and act differently too. She will try not to make it obvious in case you don't like her. There a good chance she will accept you dinner and a movie offer. If things go well then do something really sweet to show her that you really like her.
2007-03-17 15:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by crazy4orlando2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, im not a girl, but i tihnk everybody goes thru that, both guys and girls. it s natural that u feel nervous when u r with that especial guy. but i think u should just act natural, be yourself. i assume he s been talking to u because he likes u the way u r, nothing else. accept his invitation to the movies, hang out with him and go with the flow. make sure he respects u, and u will decide whether u would like to have a deeper relationship with him or not. but remember, always be urself, dont try to act "cool" because u r cool just the way u r. and that guy who just started spending time with u, surely thinks the same way. good luck, hope my advice helps u at least a lil.
2007-03-17 15:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How would you act around him?
Nervous and shy.
Would you be scared of seeming "clingy"?
Yes.
What would you do if he asked you to dinner and a movie?
I'd probably say yes.
What would be a good thing the guy could do?
Be nice and patient with me, since it takes me a while to open up.
2007-03-17 15:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would probably become giddy around him, like I used before I got married.
I would be scared of seeming too clingy, I often though I came across that way.
I would definantely accept a dinner and a movie if he asked me.
A good thing for a guy to do would be to like me for who I am and let me be myself.
2007-03-17 15:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋