Girlfriend Problem?

Question

Im a 9th grader. There is a girl in my class. We know each pretty well since 3rd grade. Ive always had a crush on her. I want to ask her out on a date, but we aren't so close ( like we know each other, but not close friends) I want to try know her better, but i dont know how to start. Help me please....

Answer 1

I would start by showing more interest in her.. flirt a little. You don't/ shouldn't have to go over the top.. but for her to know that you like her more than a friend is a good start. Either that or hang out with her as friends.. and if you don't have the nerve to do it one on one, make it a group thing and just focus attention on her. good luck!

Answer 2

Hi

There are a few different ways you can go about this.

1. Is she involved in any extra curricular activities..sports, newspaper, year book, etc. You could become involved in one of these activities as well..or you could go to a game and support her..then strike up a conversation regarding what you saw or thought.

2. You could give her a card on a holiday...and say that you remeber back when you were in 3rd grade ...yada yada...talk about old times..things that she thought were funny as well.

3. Do you know her friends? You could talk to one of them, or sit with her and them at lunch..or at a table that is close by. Try to ease drop..lol..on a conversation..that way you might be able to have some clue what she likes...etc. (I know it is not nice to ease drop..but it might be helpful to get to know her better).

4. Where does she hang out..does she like the movies? bowling? etc. Try to go to those places with your friends in hopes to running into her. Then strike up a conversation that way.

5. Offer to carry her books? Walk her home? etc. Tell her your thoughts...your feelings? Ask her to the movies or fair?

Have fun..relax and get to know her!

Good luck!

Answer 3

What about lunch time at school? Go up to her and compliment her and carry on a conversation with her. After school, walk with her home or to her bus or whatever and talk about anything just to show your interest. When you're comfortable, ask if she minds giving you her phone number and if she'd rather, tell her you'll give her yours and maybe get together sometime other than school hours. She'll either be accepting of it or not. Then, make the necessary moves to continue seeing each other or remaining just friends.

Answer 4

Yes... the group thing is a good idea, but rather then the movies maybe try bowling... during a movie you dont really have the chance to get to know the person. Bowling you can talk and have fun at the same time!

Answer 5

you just gotta do it, and call her up and ask her on this date. all first dates are going to have akward moments, but if ur into her and she's into you then those akward moments will easily be broken. see a movie and get there a little early, that way there is time to talk some before hand but you dont have to scramble to find things to say on the first date. good luck.

Answer 6

Start off small and build your way up. Once you find something in common you can start to build a strong friendship. Work on being good friends and just let things evolve on their own.

Answer 7

it's cliche, but ask her to the movies w/ a group of friends. that way it won't seem like a date, and if things go well, ask her on a date.

Answer 8

u should jus start talkin to her, maybebe start talkin bout the past to remind her how long u have known her then causally mention u always thought she was cute. then ask her if she wants to do somthin some time.

Answer 9

invite her out sometime, not necessarily on a date, but just to hang out and get to kno her better. if there's a connection, ask her out on a date.

Answer 10

GET TO KNOW HER BETTER M MAKE HER LAUGH TELL JOKES, WALK HER TO HER CLASSES ,AND ONCE SHE GROWS ON YOU A LITTLE DON;T HESITATE TO HUG HER OR KISS HER ON THE CHEEK. HOPE THIS WORKS......