Ok so this girl I really like went to a movie tonight with me and a friend. A few days ago out of no where we kinda started hugging/cuddling, and there was a bit of making out. I asked her if it ment anything the next day and she said that for the moment no and she wasn't sure if it would and that she didnt want to lead me on. So today when we went I felt like she was totally leading me on... we held hands for about half the movie she had her head on my shoulder a couple times. However there were a few times where she kinda took her hand away when I reached out for it, when she got near my hand. On the way home she asked how long I liked her, I told her, then I thought Id clarify what happened and asked if anythings changed since we last talked about how for the moment she didnt see me like that. She said not really?! But it was a more quiet and mellow and took her a while to answer. So Im totally confused. Her actions say one thing but her words say another...
2007-03-17 07:42:58 · 3 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now I dont know if she'll come and lean on me and talk to me as if we're really good friends at school now, or if it'll be as if nothing happened and she'll just act as friends.. I dont know how I should act towards her now... she knows I like her obviously but I have no idea how she feels...
2007-03-17 07:44:10 · update #1
Enjoy the moments, You will have many more situations like this. Don't push the envelope.You have a stronger emotional feeling than she does at this time. Continuous questioning may ruin a good thing. You have expressed your interest an d how you feel. Let her decide. Quit playing mind games with yourself, find a different puzzle.
2007-03-17 08:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by ry_hoff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to act as normal as possible. She is obviously confused. How do you treat the girls you date; if she is your friend, she knows your male behavior. So, if you have a history of cheating or any other "bad" behavior...she knows it. She may be afraid that you will hurt her and does not want to ruin your friendship.
2007-03-17 07:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by YaShen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm she probably likes you a bit and may have been using you for fun or she may like another guy and doesn't know how to decide.
2007-03-17 07:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mooney Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋