when a guy meets a girl that he likes why would he deny the part that he has kids from a previous relationship?......some of my friends told me that some guys do this because they want the girl to accept them first before telling them about their past....is that true?.....this guy i was seeing told me that he had no kids....and then i find out he has two
2007-03-17 07:38:50 · 11 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think maybe guys like to make sure its a realationship that is goin to develop into somethin real. not jus a causal dating realationship. revealing they have kids is a big step. plus he may not want to go into his past with every girl he dates causually. as far as ur guy lyin, i dont think that was right. i do kno that when it comes to kids u cangt introduce them to every girl u go on a date with. its to confusin for kids. they need cosistancy. hope this helps.
2007-03-17 07:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by meshelle2kz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard for people who have children to gain acceptance from other people when they are dating. A person always looks at this situation as " baggage". So most dating adults keep this hidden until they figure out if the person is mature enough to handle knowing it, and accepting it.It is very common for people to do this.
2007-03-17 14:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by ft.worths_finest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn´t date someone who lies to me from the beginning.
I think that a smart person should tell to the girl: " I have 2 kids, love me or leave me", that would be much more fair for everyone.
The guy who denies it is not a person to trust.
2007-03-17 14:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that guy "forgot" to mention his kids for your exact reaction. He doesn't want you like him less or even leave him. If you have no problem with the kids then everything's okay. If not then try to understand why he didnt want to tell you, even though he should have told you sooner.
2007-03-17 14:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by whiterabbit59 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't want you to know so you would accept him and not judge him because of his kids. And yes that is true
2007-03-17 14:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mooney Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main thing here is do you love him and want to take care of HIS kids
2007-03-17 14:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is true!!!
Maybe he wants to see how much you like him before you tell him about his kids and bring him into their lives he prolly doesnt want different girls in their lives comin and goin sooo he wants to see if your worth it...i would do the same thing...dont get mad that he didnt tell you he is prolly doing what is best its not like he is denying his kids he prolly just wants to protect them, but thats my opinon....
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2007-03-17 14:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to date guys after u get to know him and ofcouse he will deny cos then there is a chance of ruininf it b4 it started
2007-03-17 14:42:18 · answer #8 · answered by essebful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he didnt want you to run away because he has kids, same with females
2007-03-17 14:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fear of scaring you off, but I say a relationship can not start on a foundation of lies!
2007-03-17 14:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋