we've been messing around for 8 months we try to stop but can't how can i get out of this?

Question

we been like this for 8 months we always say ok we won't talk to each other anymore and don't talk for weeks and then one of us will text message or call. how can i get out of this situation i feel like this guy has a hold on me or I have a hold on him because we keep coming back in each other's life's. no rude comments please.

Answer 1

well if you guys keep talking to eachother obviously you 2 still want something to do with eachtother. If he texts you after months at a time that means he hasn't gotten over you yet and you haven't got over him yet seen as you keep talking back to him so this is what I think. If he talks to you again and you still feel like you have that hold on him, give him a second chance. Maybe it will work out for you 2 in the end.

Answer 2

I was in a similar situation for a few years. its not easy. there a attraction that keeps u both coming back. its somthin that is kind of out of ur control. but u need to be careful cuz this can cause alot of emtional damage. you two need to decide where each others feelings stand. you need to either cutt it off complately or make the decison to turn it into a relationship. but it has to be bout more then jus sex. the fact that u both realize its gettin out of hand means u have thought bout it. u jus need to make a mutual decison and actually stay tru to it. i wish i would of done it before the reaalationship i was in causeed me alot fo emotional pain. goodluck

Answer 3

Yes, Shameeka your avatar is sexy, and so is yours shyest84! Now back to the question. What's the problem? It's obvious that you guys like each other, unless the problem is that one or both of you is already spoken for. If that's the case cut it off quickly! If that's not the case then just let yourselves fall in love. Enjoy, deary!

Answer 4

well maybe you guys love eachother don't hide from love. and my avatar is so cute huh.