Eventhough I have a girlfriend. My girlfriend found out about it
and said we were over. I don't understand how I am in
trouble since I didn't actually have sex?
What can I say to my girlfriend?
2007-03-17 07:32:56 · 7 answers · asked by Lou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ever hear the saying "It's the thought that counts"? It applies to more than gift giving. Dude, you're toast. Let her go find someone worthy of her.
2007-03-17 07:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by passionatemilf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's like holding a gun to someone's head, you didn't actually kill his person, but you're still being put away.
You probably would have done it if you weren't found out. So that's the problem here. You have planned to have sex with someone else. There's nothing in the world that can gain back her respect and trust. How can she know if you will not do it again in the future? Trust is easy to break and hard to repair.
The best thing you can do is to ask for forgiveness and make a promise for the future of the relationship. It's probably hard for you since you don't consider you have done anything wrong.
Sir, maybe there's more problems than your girlfriend leaving you. I'm sensing that you had trouble in the relationship anyway.
2007-03-17 14:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter to her that you didn't have sex it's the fact that you intented to have sex. If you hadn't been found out you would have gone through with it. You might want to look at which is what you want, being with one woman or being single with a bunch.
2007-03-17 14:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't have sex because your gf found out first, not because you stopped yourself out of sheer guilt. Get over yourself.
2007-03-17 14:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by RD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're being punished for something you didn't do, find that other woman and go and do it!
2007-03-17 15:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Grrr! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it was just your genes, you couldn't deny evolution.
2007-03-17 14:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, i am sorry.....
2007-03-17 15:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by minoru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋