cuz i am serectly dating him but my dad doesn't know. i dont want to have to keep sneaking around my dad like this but i really like him. my mom doesn't see no problem with it but dad was like"if i catch u in a car with a guy drivng you will be grounded forever" "if u date ne2 with there license u wont see the light if day until u graduate" I want my dad to be ok with it. im turning 15 in a month and he just turned 17. I want my parents to meet him
2007-03-17 07:29:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You asked the wrong question.
Instead of asking us for ways to manipulate your dad, you should be asking for ways to confess your secrets and learn how to tell the truth.
Girl, get off this computer, break up with your boyfriend, and go apologize to your father and come clean. You think he is strict now, wait until he finds out he can't trust his little girl anymore.
Consider this, what if, while you are 'secretly dating' this guy, you end up 'secretly pregnant'?
2007-03-17 07:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by fenway2k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the question is if you dad would let you date him if you didn't ride in his car.
I never wanted my "little girl" to be killed by a kid that has only been driving for a year.
Why?
Because I saw my best friends sister killed that way.
But I eventually let in when my daughters were 15... almost 16.
The fact is a 17 year old doesn't have that good of judgment and if you get a 14 year old with him, his judgment is even less.
Consider yourself lucky being only grounded for life. One of my daughters got a spanking at 14 for doing just that and she would have rather been grounded for life.
You are his little baby. When you get about 25 you will once again love to be his little baby.
2007-03-17 14:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem, but more the fact that neither of my parents knew i was dating him. my mum eventually found out and told my dad, and he was slightly apprehensive about it. so i invited my bf over, he met my parents, and it all worked out pretty well. my parents thought he was a really nice guy (give ur beau a little pep talk before he comes over) and approved of my dating him.
i think if you do that, ur dad will see hes a great, caring guy and that he cares for you. he will most likely let you date him and go on dates with him
good luck!
hes kinda old for you, tho. its quite different from my situation. (im 16, hes 17) but i hope it goes well!
2007-03-17 14:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dad sees you still as his little girl and its hard for him to see you grow up... you need to work on him... see if some friends will go with you at first and let your dad meet the guy... let him get a feel for what kind of guy he is... impression is everything to a dad... talk to your mom about talking to him that might help also...
2007-03-17 14:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by jessica l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already answered your own question, let your parents meet him. If he's a good guy, there'll be no problem with your dad. if you're worried that you dont want your parents to know that you're together, then maybe make it a group date? AND MAKE SURE HE HAS A LICENSE!!
2007-03-17 14:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by whiterabbit59 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy are you starting off on teh wrong foot
If you want your parents to trust you you need be act like a adult and treat them as such
Have the boy over LET THEM GET TO KNOW him and MAYBE THEY WILL ALLOW YOU
Do you realize if you are caught sneaking around
THE BOY WILL NEVER BE ALLOWED AROUND YOU AGAIN?
If you want to be treated as a young lady ACT LIKE ONE.
Blow your parents trust and it is not easily handed back to you
Not lecturing you
Just informing you, trying to help!
2007-03-17 14:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell your dad u r dating but dont get in his car for your own health and promis your dad u wont get in his car
2007-03-17 14:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by essebful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is obviously a loser. When I was 17, I had no problem boning chicks my own age.
2007-03-17 14:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by jimmyb20032003 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
guys who date younger girls at that age are losers who cant get a girl their own age
2007-03-17 14:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by maria 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him and have your mom talk to him too
2007-03-17 14:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by Nicoletta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋