I believe God places people into your life at certain times for a reason. After splitting up with my husband about a year ago. I felt I would be happy being alone for the rest of my life. I'm not young (not old either) Recently, a guy began showing an interest and I've developed feelings for him. Sometimes things are really good, other times he is gone for days with no contact. I feel like I am on a rollercoaster from hell - but I don't want to get off. I surrender to His will, but why would God stir up all these emotions just for me to be hurt again. I will still survive being alone, but now feel so very loney. It wasn't like this before he came along. Where is God's will in this? Where is the mercy?
2007-03-17 07:27:53 · 10 answers · asked by Ms. Gump 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I'm not blaming God. I am not resentful of God. I know I am accountable for my part in this and am willing to take responsiblity for it. And yes - he gave me his phone number, has told me to call him and while I know he is very busy right now, it is not because of holidays.
2007-03-17 07:50:24 · update #1
It's not god's will you are still interested in a man so rude. Your own thoughts is what is driving your life around you, not an outside source. Question your own self-esteem level as to why you are putting up with being treated like that.
2007-03-17 07:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by American Spirit 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Blaming God (again) is not the solution. Your emotions are alive and well beyond your spirituality. God is the spirit within. Do we always see these connections as love when they are lust? Do we want to blame someone for opening a door we are trying to close? To have loved and lost is much better than to sit in the place of no love for anyone.
2007-03-17 14:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by jmmevolve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God never promised that life would be easy. Maybe He is showing you that there will be a love for you again someday, but that you don't need a man to make you complete. You are never really alone if you have faith. You need to be able to count on yourself and God to fill the void in your life. Enjoy yourself. Date a little. There is no need to rush into another serious relationship until you are truly ready.
May God Bless you.
2007-03-17 14:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
God is not the author of confusion. He didn't "send" this man to you nor did GOD stir up feelings in you. You stirred them up by an expectation of a relationship with this man. Personally...I would protect my heart against such wishy washy men. If you CHOOSE to stay on the roller coaster don't blame God!
2007-03-17 14:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by sheepinarowboat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are a few things to think about on the human plane, so that you can give God a rest:
1. Did he give you his home phone number or cell number?
2. Does his disappearance coincide with such things as "Mother's Day" and "Christmas?"
2007-03-17 14:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take responsibility for your feelings. No one makes you feel that way. you choose to feel that way by viewing yourself as being acted upon. Heaven on earth is a state of mind. Stop being so wyme ( yes I said wyme) and figure out the part that says he helps those who help themselves. Try to have some fun clinger!!!!
2007-03-17 14:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by canadaguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blame Satan for wanting you to be unhappy and of course you must take part of the blame for allowing this to continue.
2007-03-17 15:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by jasmin2236 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it old girl, you are not getting younger and somethings don't improve sitting on the shelf.
2007-03-17 14:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by U-98 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's only one logical explanation to this: god isn't real.
Now let me see those "thumbs-down".
2007-03-17 14:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hows about forgetting 'Gods will' for five minutes and getting on with being a human being. It may make you a happier person.
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God gave you his phone number? Wow.
2007-03-17 14:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by krak 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋