i have a boyfriend who i love but there is this other guy who i cant stop thinking about. i dont think he likes me we talk very little but i cant get him off my mind. what should i do
2007-03-17 07:25:59 · 24 answers · asked by jrmint92 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on what values you hold dear to you. Do you think it's important to be faithful or do you think it's important to give in to self gratification? They say the grass is always greener... and it will be all your life. That is why we have so many divorces and children growing up not knowing who their parents really are, because we give in to those temptations.
2007-03-17 07:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by dadof7n2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not just one person out there who we are destined for. Because you have a "boyfriend" and are not married you are in no way obligated to stop finding the person who will be the one to marry in the future. Now, once you are married you must avoid anything like this. I am married and if I ever felt remotely interested in someone else I would not have anything to do with them after that. I can't imagine loving anyone else since being married. So, while you are NOT married or engaged feel free to explore your options without being untrustworthy. Be honest. If you decide to "date" more than one person, enjoy. Notice I say "date" and not getting into any physical relationship. That would really mess up your head.
2007-03-17 14:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by isingmore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love & I think are totally different. What do you love about boyfriend?, Why do you think about other guy? Is there a specific moment that triggers your THOUGHT process?
Once you find out, look at boyfriend, he may have that same quality, that you may have overlooked. If this truly is important in your life, and you cannot find it in boyfriend, then persue the other guy with some dialogue. You may find out you just have an attraction, nothing like LOVE
2007-03-17 14:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by ry_hoff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you got cheating on your mind? You must first ask yourself why am I thinking about guy #2( lets call him Jeff) whats going on with your relationship with your Boyfriend , i will name him Steve, What would make it possible for your infatuation with Jeff start? Are your not getting the attention from Steve that you feel you deserve? I think it is more that Jeff seems unattainable to you where Steve is not and people often want what they can not have more then what they can easily get.
2007-03-17 14:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you love your boyfriend? if you're thinking about other guys, you might want to rethink your feelings. Maybe you're thinking about that other guy because you have doubts? Don't do anything to pursue the other guy until you're sure about your feelings! the fact that you can't get your mind off the guy is a sign that your heart is trying to tell you something... Good Luck!
2007-03-17 14:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by whiterabbit59 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Realize that your bf is probably not someone that you "love".......he's probably someone who is the best guy you have met so far and you don't want to think about hurting him ............however it sounds like you must (we all have done this at least once and there is no easy way, sorry)
2. Take some action to see if this other guy has any feelings for you........ask him for a coffee or a walk or to go to the mall (whatever).
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3. if you have feelings for someone outside your current relationship, then it's probably time to move on.
2007-03-17 14:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by carnivale4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it. You should not date anyone if you dont love them 100% more than other guys. Take some time off from eachother to think about who you really do love. Good luck.
2007-03-17 14:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by Kandi :P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't get the other man off your mind maybe you should question your true love for the present man in your life. You will never achieve true and total happiness when you have another man on your mind.
2007-03-17 14:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones are raging and chemistry is showing. Do you have chemistry with bf? If so, you may need to do a comparison list (pros and cons) to see which one offers you more.
Guy # 2 is only talking a little with you. You don't even know if he is interested. Don't throw away a good thing for what might have been.
2007-03-17 14:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by Over The Rainbow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant keep your mind off another man, then your boyfriend is not the one. Move on and get rid of both men. I did and found my true love, soulmate, and best friend!
2007-03-17 14:29:12 · answer #10 · answered by lee911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋