This summer I professed my love to this woman that I always liked badly and admired for 6 years and she accepted it.
I have been dating this girl for 4 months and she has everything I can want very pretty, nice body, nice personality, mature and smart. She is pressuring me a little to sleep with her. In my mind I want to do it because I feel we are both mature to do it and she is really good looking. However on the other hand I want to wait longer. As a male should I do it or no and why?
2007-03-17 07:23:10 · 14 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait until you're married.
2007-03-17 07:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a woman who loves you wants you to sleep with her and you turn her down on a morality issue, how do you think she will feel? I am not talking about maturity, I am talking about her feelings as a woman.
In the movie "Zorba the Greek" Zorba says that God has a very big heart, but there is one sin He will not forgive. If a women calls a man to her bed, and he will not go.
In the real world, I almost sabotaged the relationship of a lifetime. She was getting impatient with me and I was beating around the bush (no pun intended). I finally came to my senses.
Will you mourn your virginity if you sleep with this woman? Are you willing to risk the possibility of finding out that you don't have sexual chemistry until the night of your wedding?
For her sake and your sake, do celebrate your love for her between the sheets.
2007-03-17 15:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ever let someone pressure you into a decision. if this woman really cared about you, she would wait until you are ready. by pressuring you, she is not respecting your values, morals, views, etc.
i understand how you can feel blinded by love and wanting to be with this woman but she seems selfish. the right person will respect you and your feelings. wait until you are ready -- you will only regret sleeping with her if you are not really ready.
2007-03-17 14:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by kitty k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all how old are you? If you are not ready then don't allow yourself to be pressured. You will know when the time is right. The first person that answered this question surprised me with what I thought would be a typical male answer unsensitive and all.
2007-03-17 14:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by dadof7n2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always stick to your morals. If you know you want to wait a little longer, then wait. There is no shame in that. You say this girl is perfect so tell her you want to wait. Then you will see how perfect she actually is. She will either respect you or keep pressuring you.
2007-03-17 14:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by First Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God bless you brother! Okay, PLEASE wait until you are married my friend. God made 'sex' and Love as a very Holy, Beautiful gift for a man and woman and I think you will definitely be happy and proud that you wait until marriage before sleeping with anyone. :) God bless you and may Peace and Love always be with you and your Loved ones!
2007-03-17 14:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you should wait. Why? Simply because YOU want to wait longer. You said it yourself.
And "really good looking"? What does that matter anyway...
2007-03-17 14:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by SunnyD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what YOU think.
i mean if she's really pressuring you you should tell her you're not ready yet and explain it to her so hse doesn't takit personally.
If she's really the right person, she would respect the way you feel and wait.
2007-03-17 14:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by chels!?! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because you just said yourself that you want to wait longer so then if you so sleep with her your gonna regret it...if she really loves you she'll respect your decision
2007-03-17 14:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by rvl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes do it already. I don't think male virginity is as cherished as female virginity. Be a stud and hop on it.
2007-03-17 14:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by Dana Katherine 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋