when i first met her she wouldn't even want to leave me alone. she was totally clinging on to me.Thats how i liked it. know she doesn't even talk to me when i am with her. she would always want to be with me. now she runs off and hugs + kisses other guys right in front of me. what am i to do? when i talk to her about it, she gets mad, or even angry at me, yet when i do tell her what i think of her, she gets even more mad, and angry. what am i to do? should i break up with her? or stay?
2007-03-17 07:22:09 · 15 answers · asked by bo bo bo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't waste your time on her , break up.
2007-03-17 07:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by ud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, something is obviously wrong, but there is always two sides to a story. First, ask yourself, are you doing everything in your power to be a good boyfriend; do you show her enough affection that she doesn't have to look for it somewhere else? have you guys done anything new to keep the spark in the relationship? Sometimes the smallest sign of neglect can trigger this behavior. I know because I did it to my boyfriend.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 2 months ago we were in a financial struggle and during that time we barely saw each other and he didn't really call me either, so as a result I began to go even more friendly with other guys that I saw more often and ended up cheating on him. but it wasn't his fault, I was being selfish and needy. He took me back because he loved me and he understood my reasons even though my actions wasn't justified. I realized how stupid I was and that he was the perfect man for me.
All I'm saying is if she loves you she will come around and realize how not to take your relationship for granted and appreciate you, and if you love her you will forgive her and stay with her.
2007-03-17 15:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by rayraymadupe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading all the answers, i just thought of giving you the other side of the story. May be she is really in love with you and she wants you to hate her so that you move away from her as she couldn't do it herself. that's why all those shows enacted in front of you. May be she has some other committments which are preventing her to get closer to you and she doesn't have the will power to do so. Always remember one thing. Anger is diffensive mechanism in human being. When you do not want to counter or be logical you get angry. It is more often than not helplessness. Had she wanted to cheat you she could have done it under your nose without all the shows in front of you. This means she is helpless and she loves you and she wants you not to reciprocate her love. May be by moving away you are losing a great opportunity. But before doing anything, ask yourself the question and then go by your gut feeling.
2007-03-21 09:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by krish g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still like her pull her aside and talk to her one on one. If she still avoids the question she probably only wanted a fling with you. So, if you break-up with her it may be hard on you but she may fell a little sting and maybe come crawling back. At theat point I cant tell you what to do.
Also, another explaination may be that she is a real big flirt and she thought she saw her self being to clingy to you and felt like she needed to give you some space. As a girl my self, alot of the guys I've dated alway wanted time to be alone and chill with their friends.
2007-03-17 14:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by Lina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoy being ignored and seeing her run up to other guys and hug and kiss them, then by all means, stay with her. If you can possibly think for one minute this isn't okay to do, then break up with her. Have self respect and do not allow her to do that to your feelings. You deserve better.
2007-03-17 14:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look don't even try to work nothing out with her. It's very disrespectful of her to cheat on you in your face like that. You are too good of a guy to be with her and she's dropping hints that she don't want you anymore so leave her. Go to someone who love you for you.
2007-03-17 14:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by ADVICEGURL101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with her usually anger signifies that she is being unfaithful that is a bug trait of cheater when you ask them about something that bother you especially like kissing other guys like that just leave her and don't allow her to change your mind about it, if she try to sweet talk you into staying just say you know im leaving sorry.
2007-03-17 14:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by salem 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow. just brake up with her. i think she doesnt want to brake up with u so she is tryin to get u to brake up with her thats probally why she is hugging and kissing guys right in front of u. and thats probally the reason why she gets mad when u try to talk to her about anything to do with it.
well good luck.
hope that helped.
2007-03-17 14:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either u did something to her for her to act that way, or she just got bored and tired of u and just moved on. u should talk to her and find out the root of the problem- it could also be that she just got used to u- if u know what i mean. good luck.
2007-03-17 14:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by POOCHY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont even break up...stop answering your phones and stp calling she will go mad and u move on dont fall into the trick and dont chase the girl who doesnt care about you
2007-03-17 14:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by essebful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋