my ex&i(both 18)have been dating for 2 years now.we've been best friends all through highschool,but broke up almost 2 months ago for many reasons.he was in deep depression4over a year or our relationship, and eventually was put on antidepressants.just 2 weeks after being medicated,he broke up w.me,then asked me back out2days later then broke up w.me a 2nd time just3days after that.since the break up hes been treating me w.no respect, until yesterday,we ran in2 each other in the halls,&ended up talking4an hour.when he broke up w.me it seemed as if he could care less,but yesterday he confessed that he has cried over it&all of the girls that he's dated or hooked up w.since dont compare2what we had.we were literally best friends&he told me that he will ALWAYS care about me, dispite the things he has done2me.i agree w.the breakup b/c if we didnt do it2months ago it was bound2happen w.college&everything, but i still love him more than anything&cant help but wonder if he feels the same way...
2007-03-17 07:15:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he's on antidepressants he's not thinking straight. plus if you're going to college in the fall you'll meet so many guys there and hopefully you'll meet someone who will treat you with respect.
2007-03-17 07:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by lilpinay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He truly doesn't love you or care about you.The way he treats you proves that to me.
Give up on this guy and find someone who will respect you and treat you the way you should be.
He's using you and likes the control he has over you.Sounds to me as though he doesn't even respect himself so how can he care for you?
He has problems you certainly don't need and he can only help himself.Why would he tell you about other girls he's been with anyway?He's a user and an abuser.Get rid of him.The sooner the better.
2007-03-17 14:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i don't think he loves you, he may miss you and the way you were with him...but love him for you nope i don't think it's there. Now since you say you love him and he means alot to you..well why not give him one more chance. I would advise you to talk to him about what you think and feel and let him know that you were very hurt for the way things turned out before. Make it clear to him that you are not willing to go through that again. Best wishes to you hope it works out for the best.
2007-03-17 14:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋