Theres a friend of mine whom I 'm not really certain if she really is or not...For instance...I moved into my first apartment..and when she came over..she told me how nice it was and then..she looked in her purse and she threw a used condom at me..then there was another instance that I told her I am graduating from college this may..and she was like "Oh good for you" and then changes the subject..and asks me about this guy I was involved with that did me very wrong.. lol..then there was another instance, where i told her about this guy I was dating, how he was into church, and had a job, and all she could was say is he's weird, and she doesn't like him, and she quickly got off the phone..then on top of that she has made several lesbian come on's to me...she told me I was very very attractive...but anytime something positive is going on in my life whether it be, romantic, professional,,she always has something negative to say about..it so is this person my friend or foe
2007-03-17 07:13:48 · 15 answers · asked by Velinda S 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
she is not your friend. she wants to have some part of you to fill up something she is lacking in her own life. she wants to drag you down to her level - the fact that she is not supportive of anything positive in your life is proof of that. and how did she get a used condom if she's a lesbian?? i'm kidding. but if she had a used condom in her purse to begin with, that is a sure sign of someone who is not all there.
2007-03-17 08:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by really marine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her and ask her why she is acting like this towards you. Tell her you have had enough of the way she treats you and threaten to stop being her friend is she won't stop. This is very weird behavior and I have the sense that she may be jealous of you for some reason, but in any case confront her.
2007-03-17 14:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she is not your friend. If this is really a serious question, your doubts should be your answer. Have you heard the phrase, "When in doubt, don't!" Don't even consider her as a friend, and stop with the phone calls and information about your life. She is evil, has no good in mind for you. Wake up!
2007-03-17 14:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by desertflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOE. Either jealous or wanting. Not someone that will enrich your life, motivate or support you.
Say hi, have a coffee, talk about the weather or other nonsuch subjects and leave it at that.
2007-03-17 14:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by hans t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you answered your own question.
If, after all you just wrote, you are still unsure, the chick sounds like she's a few leaves short of a salad and you need to find some real friends.
2007-03-17 14:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is jealous of you. But someone that is jealous can be dangerous. I would just avoid her. Honey you do not need to be around someone like that. She is toxic. I rather be alone than around someone like that. When you see her be polite but brief and I would not even answer the phone when she calls. She will finally get the hint and move on to greener pastors.
2007-03-17 14:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by tnbadbunny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she took a USED condom out of her purse and threw it at you? that chick has problems. i used to have toxic friends like that. i pretty much dumped them. it can be lonely for a while if thats the only person you really hang out with,but you will make new friends. ones that dont treat you like dirt.
2007-03-17 14:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call her a friend. She doesn't seem like one. Anyone who constantly criticizes you or makes you feel bad is not a friend. I'd say just keep your distance from this girl. Say hello when you see her, be polite, but just don't bother with her anymore. She's not worth your time if she's going to act that way.
2007-03-17 14:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FOE, FOE, FOE, RUN, RUN,RUN
She is not your friend. A friend would be supportive of your accomplishments and respectful of your home and friendships.
2007-03-20 22:17:40 · answer #9 · answered by ♠LISA♠ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she isnt a friend dont just ignor her make her feel like you dont to socialize with her if it come to a point where you cant take it MOVE!!!
2007-03-17 14:24:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋