Whats a good way to tell a girl I like her?

Question

I like this girl ... iunno what to do..?
me and her met about a month ago
BIG height difference though
thats one of the bad things
umm
im like 5 11
shes like 5 0
is this that bad?

her best friend is my best friend




our parents know of both of us





we tease eachother a lot




should i tell her i like her?

Answer 1

well, if you think she might like you back and you ara a generally confident person then come straight out and tell her.

if you wanna play it safe i suggest stepping up the teasing into full on flirting.

See how she reacts to body language, like touching more than you would touch one of your guy friends,

putting your arm around her when you guys sit near eachother

it might seem daunting but, if you just make it seem natural and treat it like it's no big thing, then both of you will feel way more comfortable with it.

by the way if she likes you as much as you like her, you'll know the first time you try something, she'll fall right into it I promise.

However girls can be tricky, and if you get a nuetral response, it doesn't necassarily mean she isn't interested.

at that point you have two options man up and tell her how you feel, (by now she will probly already know and have thought of something to say so just let her talk)

or, accuse her of flirting with you all the time lol

sounds rediculous but really poke fun at her

tell her you can feel chemistry with her if she denies it, tell her you know she's lying

act like you don't care if she likes you or not, but like you know she does.

This is the cowards way out and i really reccomend just telling her but

hey if yer scared than this way you never hafta deal with feeling like she rejected you.

lol You'll know if she did or not, but she won't even know it happened.

god i feel sneaky :)

Answer 2

Hey ,
Being a girl I can honestly say that you should go for it. If you both are interested in each other then you have a huge shot with her...it would be different if you had never talked to her cause you would not know if you guys had anything in common, but since you are friends you know that you guys get alone. If you really like her just do it before you don' t have another chance. No one wants to hear this part but if she does not like you it might make it awkward between you guys or it may not you just have to be willing to take a chance. I think if you like a girl enough you should go for it!! So you will never wonder what if!! GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

My sister is 5'2 and she is getting married on Saturday to a 6'3. Height means nothing. As for telling her, I would. What do you have to lose? Say you didn't you would ponder what if and never know. If you step up (which all girls love when a guy steps up) you will find out if she likes you to. If she's flirting back... I'm sure she likes you too!!! Good luck and be brave. Ask her to a dinner or for a walk in a park. Then tell her how pretty she looks and tell her you like her. Be brave :)

Answer 4

I don't know, but as a young woman I know I would feel touched if someone mentioned the beauty of my eyes. The eyes are known as the window to the soul. This one guy I know, all he can mention is my chest, and it makes me feel like he has never noticed anything else about me, like I'm just an object. That's my two cents worth. Others may differ.

Answer 5

The height difference can be a good thing. I think you should just ask her out. Take her out and make it romantic so she see's that you are looking for more than a friend. If you are still too young to take her out then you can pass her a note in class......

Answer 6

you should tell her but, at the same times you should add something like this....(whatever her name is) I have to tell you something and that is that Im attracted to you, but....If you do not feel the same way I do not want to mess up our friendship if not you will totally loose her completely, and a good way to show a girl you like her is find out what she is most interested in and i mean something that she like so much its like something she has to have in her life her favorite hobby or whatever and learn as much as you can about it and then plan a date or an activity around that certain thing

Answer 7

just hang out with her a lot and end up telling her that you like her more as than just a friend.

I personally like a shorter girl :)

I'm sorry if things dont work out, she might just think of you as a good friend. I would tell her if I were you though. Never pass up a chance for love

Good luck!

Answer 8

First of all, girls like honesty. Ask yourself, why do you like her so much. Is it her smile? Her dimples? Her spirit? Her wit? Her personality? The way she makes you feel when she enters a room? Write down the things that apply, then shower her each day with compliments. Girls like this. But, don't overdo it...that would embarrassing to her. So search yourself and then each day...make her feel good about herself.

Answer 9

yes you should tell her you like her! Maybe she likes you back. Tell her that you known her for a long time and want to go out with her. its better to tell her how you feel than wait and find out she's going out with someone else. Just give it a try she might like you the same way you like her.

good luck x0x0x0x0x0

Answer 10

Definitely tell her. It sounds like a match!

The height difference doesn't matter at all. I'm the same height as you, so I speak from experience.